Step Mom and Dad - Coming Down a Bit Hard?

[General Nick]

Here's an idea: How about your parents grow a backbone and beat the stuff out of the slut. She's a pothead/slut/both and she isn't even 18. forget. If my daughter ever did that stuff she wouldn't be seeing daylight.

Hell if I was smoking pot and doing this stuff (I don't think they'd care if I was getting laid unless I got her pregnant) MY parents would definitely shoot me.

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[Nightzet467]

really, what a bitch. By the way, it's pretty ineffective to talk to an older sibling, they often ignore what you say. Have your parents cut her off (as in they don't pay for stuff). When she earns their trust she can start to have certain things paid for again

[Darkhawk]

That is not too hard.
She is a bitch.
She obviously doesn't care about her family, on account of the way she never wants to be around you guys, so you need to make her move out.
Then she can party and skip classes and fend for her loving self.
Thats how it is for me anyway, and my parents are great, not too hard at all. But they say that if i start acting like that, then I'm kicked out of the loving house, although I have started hanging out with friends more often since summer is over.

[Wynd_Fox]

I don't care

Someone should ban your dad from life.

[Darkhawk]

Thats not even funny.
When your parents stop caring about what you do, or your happiness, you are forgeted.
You will more then likely start doing drugs and achohol about a week after they say it, once you realize they mean it, then you get hooked, when you ask for money for more, they say no, because they don't care, when you ask them to take you somewhere, why should they? Not their problem, when you are in the hospital with lung cancer or achohol poisoning, where the forget are your parents? At home watching TV while you slowly waste away, the hospital soon kicks you out because your dad dropped your insurance plan, on account of him not caring about you, so you are sitting on the street dying, no one will help you, your just an achoholic smoking drug addict bum, who would want to help that?

[chaseyqurt]

@ OP and other people

Do you know for sure that, she's abusing drugs and having love? If not, you're making too big of a deal out of it.

[tay104]

Not hard enough. Slap her and tell her that she has no financial support from her family any longer.

[Caution]

Do you know for sure that, she's abusing drugs and having love? If not, you're making too big of a deal out of it.

I walked into her room once to get my phone charger back; there were a few empty cartons of cigarettes and a bottle of Bacardi.

Need I say more.

[Amade]

This sounds exactly like the road my sister is heading down. She's never at home and when she is she's barricaded in her room.

I don't think your parents are being too harsh at all, although what they're doing is probably only amplifying the problem as your sister probably doesn't feel welcome at home anymore, so spends a great deal of time at friends' houses.

[Caution]

Before it wasn't much of a matter of wanting to be there; she never was anyhow. She was never here but now that my dad asked her to be home a little bit more, she completely overreacted and took it to heart and thought he was basically saying she sucked. She's a drama queen, I'll give her that. She takes everything my dad says negatively.

Whenever she is home, she's sleeping.

Speaking of which, she's not home now.

[pitchblack]

Thats about how my older sister is! Sept... she's "moved out" now. Last time she did that she stayed for a day and came back =\. But shes been gone for about 2 or 3 days now ^_^ better without her!

[TapeDeck]

Just threaten to call the cops on her if she doesn't get her act together.

[Bisjac]

lol this is observation from someone who has no kids, and for the love of loving god will never spawn loving kids in his lifetime.


parenting fail is when they punish and punish and punish...
then clearly when the kid has nothing to lose, well forget you mom and dad i will clearly do as i please then.

its a durrhurr of parenting, they never learn do they. lets take a problem and escalate it as much as we can lol


my favorite line of all time from my parents:
"you should respect us because we are your parents"
i could slap a bitch for ever thinking that is sound logic lol

[Caution]

lol this is observation from someone who has no kids, and for the love of loving god will never spawn loving kids in his lifetime. Explain your logic. I don't exactly see how everyone in my family can notice except me and how exactly this has anything to do with me having future kids.


parenting fail is when they punish and punish and punish...
then clearly when the kid has nothing to lose, well forget you mom and dad i will clearly do as i please then. They don't punish anymore. It's trial-and-error, they're not idiots, they realized it's done nothing.

its a durrhurr of parenting, they never learn do they. lets take a problem and escalate it as much as we can lol Just because my family actually gives a flying forget, and yours apparently doesn't, I don't think you can criticize it for what it is.


my favorite line of all time from my parents:
"you should respect us because we are your parents"
i could slap a bitch for ever thinking that is sound logic lol Exactly. You're defending her because most likely you are/were exactly like her.

[Inv3rted]

lol this is observation from someone who has no kids, and for the love of loving god will never spawn loving kids in his lifetime.

By doing this you remove yourself from the gene pool and therefore are eliminated by natural selection.

:(