You're assuming the admins ban because they're stressed. Most of these admins are players who like banning people. They feast on the anger and whining of friendly players. They are also the people that get banned from good servers when they join them.
What's this nonsense about humanity? I know for a fact that most people change the moment they get on the internet. It's a place to relieve stress by becoming the biggest starfish you can. You let everything out. You vent, you troll, you insult, you rage. Banning a player gives them the message that they did wrong. Nobody will quit a game because they've been banned from a few servers. It fuels their desire. If they truly want to piss people off, then they are trying to get banned.
Now the people that are wrongfully banned, they should quit their whining. You can't change a person by making a drama topic. Chances are, if you get banned for no reason, the server isn't even worth playing on. Diggy's ban was most likely a temporary one. Maybe he was in a bad mood.
You also misinterpreted my loveist brown townogy. Sure it would be fitting to say that the admins are the men. If the admins were equal to the players, the server would lapse into anarchy (no sandwiches). There comes a point when being an admin is a complete pain in the ass. If everybody came in and asked you the same repetitive and annoying questions, can you honestly say you wouldn't get pissed off? Ignoring and banning occurs when an admin reaches his breaking point, the end of his rope. It's either shut down the server or get rid of the annoyances. You have to remember that the admins are players too. They host because they want to play too. It's not their responsibility to take care of the players every whim. They play the game to have fun, not to cater to the wishes of every blockhead that joins the server.
You can try several things if you're an admin. Make rules and guidelines for new players. But then there are those who join and don't pay attention. People who don't pay attention, don't read the rules, always ask for help. You remind them to read the rules, and they ignore you. It works both ways.
My point is; you cannot expect equality between players. Some truly are better than others. The admins with common sense ban friends that join their server and annoy them. The players with common sense avoid those servers where admins are easily annoyed.