Alright, calm down.Do you have Wireless internet?If not, buy a wireless router.Then.Go to your Ds menu, look for the Config button, go to internet or connection...Search for access point, choose the router network.
Put in a ip and other stuff manually. There should be guides for this.
Sounds like a problem where if you just keep trying every 30 minutes or so it will eventually work. I get that when I reformat my comp and I keep resetting the comp 100 times until it finally works.
What about this?