u mad?
In all seriousness, if he did die, you wouldn't be online right now, you would be trying to escape the pain or honoring him.
What do you expect him to do? Weep all day?
If anybody close to me died, I wouldn't be sitting in my room moping and crying about it, but instead try to find something that would stop me from being upset.
Mourning doesn't have to be done in groups. He was worried about his dad's situation before, wanted some words to lift his spirits, and the situation only got worse.
JD, I'm sorry about your dad.