So uh, I'm single for the first time in 18 months and idk how to feel

[Rooged]

My girlfriend and I had a mutual break up probably an hour ago, because neither one of us was happy in the relationship and I'm heading off to college soon, so we decided that a break up was the healthiest thing for us.

But, I'm not upset or anything. I'm not sure how I feel about this at all.

any advice, forums?

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[Brickitect]

Go through college then get more bitches.

[Messes]

Don't worry, you're most likely going to want to be single through college. It'll make things a lot easier as a relationship is a decently sized commitment that would interfere with school work and your overall college experience.

You'll meet a lot of new girls and guys through college and you wouldn't necessarily want someone to hold you back from any of them.

Go to college for you and make it the experience you want to have. A girlfriend at this time might steer you from the path you wish to take.

edit: I might also add that it can also go the other way and you can potentially find a girl you love deeply. It's all what you make it.

[Daswiruch]

you don't have to feel anything

[Rooged]

my avatar goes perfectly with how i feel about this right now lol

[hillkill]

its a really hard time from my experience, but everyone is different. i thought i would be fine but then i got really depressed for a few days and thought, "maybe i'm not meant for love." then i got over it. if you have some kind of social problem like i do, it might make you feel worse.

[Rooged]

i don't think i do. i'm extremely extroverted and i love social events

[Planr]

my advice: don't behave like pre-bernadette Howard Wallowitz

[|Orange|]

Remember, there are always more bitches in the sea

[Rooged]

my advice: don't behave like pre-bernadette Howard Wallowitz

holy stuff yeah lol

[Count]

I don't mean to be blunt so soon after your breakup, but being single in college is probably the best thing you could be doing.

[hillkill]

I don't mean to be blunt so soon after your breakup, but being single in college is probably the best thing you could be doing.

this is bad advice IMO. theres nowhere else to meet new people typically, so that's another main point of high school and college, dating and finding the right mate. really the only social place OP is going to meet people after college are the guys at the watercooler.

[Count]

this is bad advice IMO. theres nowhere else to meet new people typically, so that's another main point of high school and college, dating and finding the right mate. really the only social place OP is going to meet people after college are the guys at the watercooler.

I don't mean being single as in not getting involved with women. I mean being single in college means way more freedom to find love/friends/other