Author Topic: I don't know what to do with my life.  (Read 12052 times)

Lets think of this postitivly, He can't join a gang cause he won't have enough money to buy a gun.I saw the other day, a micro uzi costs around 1,000 to 3,000 dollars. 3.50 an hour aint gonna cut it

I would never want to in the first place, and really idiot gangs pay for all there guns!

@OP: Life is what you make it.. if you set yourself ways to fail, then you'll end up failing. Try and be optimistic and not plan everything out, because nothing will go exactly as it is in your head.

Think of what you are good at, what you are bvest at, what you need to get better at, and then come up with a job you would like to do. Then learn to drive and move to a real city.

Rather than arguing with Destroyer, which is akin to taking a stuff on your own face willingly, how about you resolve this?

List your interests first.
That always helps. Be thorough.

After doing that, look around you for what jobs, if that is indeed what you want, involve these. Do you have a Gamestop nearby, etc? Consider that, but take a look at what excites you first. Its surprising what you forget. Get specific.

Think of what you are good at, what you are bvest at, what you need to get better at, and then come up with a job you would like to do. Then learn to drive and move to a real city.
Not quite. At 14, there really isn't all that much driving he can do, and you're asking him to move when he's 18. Its a big ask for some.

@OP: Life is what you make it.. if you set yourself ways to fail, then you'll end up failing. Try and be optimistic and not plan everything out, because nothing will go exactly as it is in your head.
Better to have an idea of a destination rather than float aimlessly. If you don't know what you want to do, its all to easy to get stuck in university or something.

Rather than arguing with Destroyer, which is akin to taking a stuff on your own face willingly, how about you resolve this?
After doing that, look around you for what jobs, if that is indeed what you want, involve these. Do you have a Gamestop nearby, etc? Consider that, but take a look at what excites you first. Its surprising what you forget. Get specific.
Not quite. At 14, there really isn't all that much driving he can do, and you're asking him to move when he's 18. Its a big ask for some.
Better to have an idea of a destination rather than float aimlessly. If you don't know what you want to do, its all to easy to get stuck in university or something.
ADVICE COMMANDER S

I like floating. I know the general direction obviously, and there's no current in dese waters so a simple push in the other direction can sort me out if I don't like it :cookieMonster:

I like floating. I know the general direction obviously, and there's no current in dese waters so a simple push in the other direction can sort me out if I don't like it :cookieMonster:
For you, maybe. The university environment is often all too convenient for some, and one could easily try for a life of learning. But it'd also need a lifetime's worth of money as well.
For those without such funds, it is important to know what they want to do, so they don't do a year of general arts or something and pay extra. That just means they haven't considered their interests enough to make a career of it, or they haven't got any interests, and it's an expensive method of buying time to think.
Go to university open days instead and see what they offer.

 I'm not the type of person that wants to get a job at an office, have kids, die old. forget that, I'm planning to do something only a rare amount of people ever would have a chance in.

I'm not the type of person that wants to get a job at an office, have kids, die old. forget that, I'm planning to do something only a rare amount of people ever would have a chance in.

Being a gigolo?

I'm not the type of person that wants to get a job at an office, have kids, die old. forget that, I'm planning to do something only a rare amount of people ever would have a chance in.
Balance with realism. You're going to have to do a bit of regular work to get started.
I do hope you know what this rare job is. :P

I'm not the type of person that wants to get a job at an office, have kids, die old. forget that, I'm planning to do something only a rare amount of people ever would have a chance in.
Space Pirate.

I'm not the type of person that wants to get a job at an office, have kids, die old. forget that, I'm planning to do something only a rare amount of people ever would have a chance in.
Navy seals?

Balance with realism. You're going to have to do a bit of regular work to get started.
I do hope you know what this rare job is. :P

 An adventurer!


Navy seals?
What a joke.
All that does is kill individuality and add plenty of unfortunate habits to the rest of your life.

At 18 years old with no plan what so ever, about to graduate i may geuss, and no plan. You will fail at life. That is why i want to have my plan ready, know what to do. Oh, and by the wya i live in a small rural town with a only a gas station, that a family runs by them selves. So getting a job ain't easy, but i already have one that sucks at pay i babysit, monday through friday for $3.50 an hour. It sucks, and i cannot do that forever for the money sucks, and it is just handicapped.

thank you for your 14 year old opinion on how i'm going to fail at life, haha.