Rather than arguing with Destroyer, which is akin to taking a stuff on your own face willingly, how about you resolve this?
List your interests first.
That always helps. Be thorough.
After doing that, look around you for what jobs, if that is indeed what you want, involve these. Do you have a Gamestop nearby, etc? Consider that, but take a look at what excites you first. Its surprising what you forget. Get specific.
Think of what you are good at, what you are bvest at, what you need to get better at, and then come up with a job you would like to do. Then learn to drive and move to a real city.
Not quite. At 14, there really isn't all that much driving he can do, and you're asking him to move when he's 18. Its a big ask for some.
@OP: Life is what you make it.. if you set yourself ways to fail, then you'll end up failing. Try and be optimistic and not plan everything out, because nothing will go exactly as it is in your head.
Better to have an idea of a destination rather than float aimlessly. If you don't know what you want to do, its all to easy to get stuck in university or something.