Getting in touch with my mom. [Reply]

[Xx7xX]

Oh wow :D

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[Roknrollwill]

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wut

[Xx7xX]

wut

It's a beautiful story :3
i actually was tl;dr

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It's a beautiful story :3
i actually was tl;dr

Then get the forget out.

I plan on waiting, Magick, but if I get no response, then I'll take that as a sign that she doesn't even want to regain contact at which point I will most likely give up. :c

To be honest, that's kind of a way to make me feel like that then it wouldn't be my fault I don't have her in my life anymore, though in reality, I feel like it still was.

[Roknrollwill]

I didn't read the whole topic but.

Your mother is kind of heartless if she doesn't want to see you ;c

[BanishedLetters]

Just email her this.

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I didn't read the whole topic but.

Your mother is kind of heartless if she doesn't want to see you ;c

That's kind of what I was thinking. :c

Just email her this.

Do you think before you post? Obviously if it was that simple, I'd have done it already.

[tay104]

Sometimes you can't trust your mother.  Remember this little piece of wisdom.  I had  to learn the hard way and it hurts like no other.  I truly hope that you receive a response from your mother.  I also want you to know that you aren't alone and that I'm in a similar situation, except I don't want anything to do with my mother.

[Visage]

Just write down "Sup bitch, just thought I'd holla at a ho, peace."

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Sometimes you can't trust your mother.  Remember this little piece of wisdom.  I had  to learn the hard way and it hurts like no other.  I truly hope that you receive a response from your mother.  I also want you to know that you aren't alone and that I'm in a similar situation, except I don't want anything to do with my mother.

Why is that?

Just write down "Sup bitch, just thought I'd holla at a ho, peace."

lol the look on her face would be priceless.

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She replied.

She said she was sorry for sending me away like that on such short notice, but she knew it was best for me. I always thought that that decision was out of selfishness, I never really thought that that was a possibility. I let my Grandma read it and she explained that my mother never really was a family-knowledgeable person. She always wanted a family but never knew how. She never knew how to do it right. But it's not like parenting comes with a manual...

I love my mom. My grandma said that she thinks it would be best to wait until I was on my own to regain full contact with her because then it wouldn't be like she was still my caretaker. I personally agree...

I feel like an idiot now since I never really viewed it as a non-selfish situation...

EDIT; I'd also like to thank Magick. I personally believe he has helped the most here and has actually helped influence me in this situation in real life. Thanks. :D

[*Magick* Mage]

She replied.

She said she was sorry for sending me away like that on such short notice, but she knew it was best for me. I always thought that that decision was out of selfishness, I never really thought that that was a possibility. I let my Grandma read it and she explained that my mother never really was a family-knowledgeable person. She always wanted a family but never knew how. She never knew how to do it right. But it's not like parenting comes with a manual...

I love my mom. My grandma said that she thinks it would be best to wait until I was on my own to regain full contact with her because then it wouldn't be like she was still my caretaker. I personally agree...

I feel like an idiot now since I never really viewed it as a non-selfish situation...

EDIT; I'd also like to thank Magick. I personally believe he has helped the most here and has actually helped influence me in this situation in real life. Thanks. :D

Oh that's wonderful, dear. I'm so glad this this could be sorted out. And maybe it is for the better if you wait a bit to regain full contact with her, but remember not to leave her dangling either. Do what you feel is best. Go with your heart on this matter. c:

And it's nice to know I could help, even though we're so far apart. But it's even better to know that things turned out very well for you. I hope that you hold onto this light for a long, long time. c:

[tay104]

Why is that?

The reason I want nothing to do with my mother is because she is unable to care for herself, let alone children, she is an alcoholic, and a manipulator along with other things i am not comfortable discussing on the internet.

The little snippet of wisdom comes from my father preaching to me that he will pay for my entire college education, which is believable considering his income level, and coming to me not a month ago that the only funds that I have are the savings bonds that he has collected over the years.  All you need to know about the bonds is that it MAY get me through a year of school.  Singular.  If he had notified me earlier I would have been able to make arrangements to have other sources of educational funding.  So all in all, he forgeted me over and just about told me "Hey buddy, you're on your own, get a damn job.  You aren't my responsibility now!"  If that's unclear I'm registering as an independent on my taxes.

[Solid]

Oh that's wonderful, dear.

You sound like a stereotypical mom from the 50s when you say this. :p

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Oh that's wonderful, dear. I'm so glad this this could be sorted out. And maybe it is for the better if you wait a bit to regain full contact with her, but remember not to leave her dangling either. Do what you feel is best. Go with your heart on this matter. c:

And it's nice to know I could help, even though we're so far apart. But it's even better to know that things turned out very well for you. I hope that you hold onto this light for a long, long time. c:

I don't want to leave her dangling, I always used to wonder if she ever even thought about me and what she had done, you have no idea how comforting it is to know she actually did.

I hope it lasts, too. :3

The reason I want nothing to do with my mother is because she is unable to care for herself, let alone children, she is an alcoholic, and a manipulator along with other things i am not comfortable discussing on the internet.

The little snippet of wisdom comes from my father preaching to me that he will pay for my entire college education, which is believable considering his income level, and coming to me not a month ago that the only funds that I have are the savings bonds that he has collected over the years.  All you need to know about the bonds is that it MAY get me through a year of school.  Singular.  If he had notified me earlier I would have been able to make arrangements to have other sources of educational funding.  So all in all, he forgeted me over and just about told me "Hey buddy, you're on your own, get a damn job.  You aren't my responsibility now!"  If that's unclear I'm registering as an independent on my taxes.

That totally sucks for you, if I were you I don't even know if I would accept the year of schooling or not because that is just the most immature thing a parent could have done. That sounds like a bitch of a situation, sorry. :(