high school age dating:
is about learning what you want and dont want in a girl.
and what you are, and are not good at; in bed, or just interacting with the opposite love.
most kids that age dont even have a handle on their own personality yet.
so yeah dating seems all forgeted up and broken for them, because dating is supposed to be about finding people you "click" with. it dont work when you dont know what you want or like.
you cant add 2 numbers if you dont know what either of them are.
the major fail that kids that age should know before they go through high school, is that there WILL NOT be anything long term with these other people you meet. be it at the end of the year, or week.
and there is nothing wrong with loving left and right shamelessly.
that stuff is only wrong once you are an adult in your 30s