ram does not work that way.
why do people get upset when ram usage is over 50% or some number?
you WANT your computer to be using as much ram as it can at all times. no matter what you are doing.
whats the point of having 4-6-8+gigs when you never see it use more then 2 at any time? waste of money.
the computer wont just get bogged down by tons of things running. when you are sitting at the desktop, yes windows will allow all them stupid little programs to use way more memory then they normally need.
but once you open a large app, they lose some, and more is allotted to the new app.
the computer isnt stupid, its made to do this...