In her defense, at the moment I don't exactly have a job that is fit to support a kid and she's scared that I will be a deadbeat dad and she wanted to know if I would be able to step up and do what I need to do as a man to take care of my kid. She's only trying to protect the interest as far as the child is involved. I can't blame her at all. Granted, she could have gone about it in a totally different way, but she felt that shock therapy was the best option.