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dear oh-so-helpful BL forums,

in about 1 year and 3 months I can move out of the house. unfortunately, my parents have tightened their "religious grip" over me (ever since they found out my older bro and sis don't go anymore) and basically force me to go to church every week and read scriptures with them every night. whether you like religion or not I shouldn't have to pretend I believe this stuff (I'm not even going to say whether or not religion in general is bad, all you need to know is this one doesn't work for me) just because my parents don't want me to make my own decisions. should I confront them about this or should I just buckle up and endure it until I can move out?

sincerely
fred

p.s. the reason I'm asking an internet forum is because it's easier to "talk" to people I don't and never will really know.

Tell your mother you feel sick every night and go to your room.  :cookieMonster: first poasters

If you tell them off, you'll prolly get spanked, unless they are understanding parents who will open up to the view of others like my mom. I didn't get in trouble for looking up research on her computer. :D

It would be best to endure the year if they aren't as kind and understanding as my mom.

Imprint Jesus's face on a piece of toast. After such an intense religious experience, you'll never have to go to church again!

If you tell them off, you'll prolly get spanked, unless they are understanding parents who will open up to the view of others like my mom. I didn't get in trouble for looking up research on her computer. :D

It would be best to endure the year if they aren't as kind and understanding as my mom.
What did she say?

If you tell them off, you'll prolly get spanked, unless they are understanding parents who will open up to the view of others like my mom. I didn't get in trouble for looking up research on her computer. :D

It would be best to endure the year if they aren't as kind and understanding as my mom.

people still spank there children? i thought we had evolved or something

What did she say?
I told her "I was a growing boy and that I had feelings." Sounds stupid, but it was worth getting out of trouble. She said "'kay, I know you're a growing boy and that you're getting interested in girls, so it's fine."

Then went on about how she didn't want viruses 'n stuff, and I just walked out free.

I told her "I was a growing boy and that I had feelings." Sounds stupid, but it was worth getting out of trouble. She said "'kay, I know you're a growing boy and that you're getting interested in girls, so it's fine."

Then went on about how she didn't want viruses 'n stuff, and I just walked out free.
Wow, my mom would probably flip stuff and go on about how I'm exploiting women or something.

Parents are like that, and I promise you that in 1 year, things will change. You cant tell me your parents had the same mentality over something for more then a month.

When I was younger, I used to bring bad grades to my parents and they would ground me "Till your grades get better" but after a week or 2 without anything, everything goes back to normal.

Now im not saying its gona take one year or go get bad grades and stuff but im saying ride out the weather. I am sure your parents will slowly calm down, no matter how religiouse they are.

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My parents gave me so much "love education" that I basicly can watch pron infront of them. Then again, I dont need my right hand to do the pleasing :P

Wow, my mom would probably flip  @#!*%  and go on about how I'm exploiting women or something.
I don't know how my mom would react, and I don't want to find out.

I'm too afraid of my own religion to watch research anymore...

Confront your parents about it.

Throw the scripture out of the window.

I bet they'll listen to you after that.

Don't take it in the ass. If you don't want to believe in that stuff, you don't have to. It's murka. If you don't feel like doing all the work and dealing with all the idiotic drama, just conform for a year.

I was thinking about making  topic just like this today.

Mom: Can be cool at times, but mostly is a nagging bitch. She's like a fully automatic gun. One complaint after another. She's also a tribal forget. She sees a Mexican man walking down the street while I'm putting boxes away and she closes the garage so that he doesn't see inside at all of our stuff. She believes our neighbors are drug dealers because people constantly go in and out there. She's also a complete moron at times.

Dad: Bible humper whose life goal is to not be his dad. So let me give you some back story. His dad was abusive and a hoarder. He beat his kids everyday and as a pain in the ass. My dad doesn't beat me, but he's a pain in the ass with a shorter fuse than a loving pop-it. He gets pissed off at the littlest things. and since he has a broken leg I have to help him at his job. And when some loving moron borrows the room and leaves it looking like hell, guess who gets yelled at. Me. He's a total starfish. 2 days ago he was cutting his hair and some hair was left in the cutter. so he was trying to get it out. I come upstairs to bring him his phone because someone he works with was calling him. He loving yells at me and nearly chucks his phone at me. He is a pastor and is all anti-everything else. He's very close minded and doesn't give a stuff about anyone but himself. I loving hate both of my parents and I honestly can not wait until I move out and live on my own.