Author Topic: My mum.  (Read 2922 times)

For the past few years of my life, my mum has been much cooler than she used to be, up until this year. Yes, she still allows me to do a lot, but I swear to god, this bitch is on the rag 24/7. She comes into my room every motning at 7am to wake me up and tell me its time to get up and do school work. I do this with no hesitation because I don't care. Occasionally I'll wake up and not take a shower and stuff, and just lay around in bed relaxing up until like 11 and then get up and do stuff. Well, apparently this is like the most sinister thing I can do. She comes home at random (her work is super demanding, so in order to leave she has to use part of her vacation hours. She comes home as quietly as she can, and then slams my door open as fast as she can. If I'm not doing schoolwork, or if I'm in bed still, she goes like "what the forget is wrong with you? You think you're on vacation? forget that, get your ass up right now, if you do this a loving gain you're going back to school. My response "uhm, okay". Essentially, every single day of my life is fairly easy, it was when I went to school because I'd only attend for 4 hours, and now that I'm homeschooled, its more difficult. I do like 6 hours of work a day, and sleep like 3 hours a night because of it. My mother knows exactly what my work habit is, so she knows that I don't start until late at night, because quite frankly I'm not a morning person. So any way, my mom for the past like 6 months my moms had some crazy beef for me, like I dunno what I did. So she's always comparing me to my brothers, and she's always like complaining and stuff and saying I'm a failure. She's always saying that my brothers are better, and that my life is a complete waste.

Here's an example; Last night I was doing physics schoolwork, well I guess I fell asleep doing it, book in hand, lamp on. This morning my mom storms into my room and throws the book off of me and starts shaking me really hard. I wake up and say "Good morning to you too" her response "forget off, what the hell are you heating up with that lamp?" I said "huh?" She said "your lamp is on, why?" Me "I must have fallen asleep doing work" her "yeah my ass, you probably did that just so you could sleep longer" I said "uhm, okay then". So, I slept 3 hours last night and was woken by the wicked witch of the west.


Furthermore; my mom always goes around saying how mean I am to her and such, when its not true in the slightest. She's always calling out my flaws and she's always threatening me and stuff. I'm honestly tempted to grab my stuff and get out, I'm done listening to this constant verbal abuse, simply because she misses her star child, and because my dad left her because as he said 'shes a psychotic bitch'.


forget.


Tldr; none, read it you lazy starfish.

Your mom sounds like an awful person
LOLL UR A friend AND A WASTE OF LIFFE EVEN DO UR MAI OWN SUN I HAT U!!!!!!


Your dad was right.
This is why dads say the truth about people.
Except you

Find a friend who can help you and take your stuff and get your ass out of there.
Tell her you're done with her stuff. She doesn't have a right to act that way.

Your mom sounds like an awful person
LOLL UR A friend AND A WASTE OF LIFFE EVEN DO UR MAI OWN SUN I HAT U!!!!!!


Don't get me wrong, she's nice sometimes, but when she gets into an angry fit, all she does is blame me for all her problems and stuff.

Find a friend who can help you and take your stuff and get your ass out of there.
Tell her you're done with her stuff. She doesn't have a right to act that way.

I wish I could, but I'm only 16, that'd legally count as running away ]:

Find a friend who can help you and take your stuff and get your ass out of there.
Tell her you're done with her stuff. She doesn't have a right to act that way.

Extremely bad idea, family is the way to go if you plan on leaving. It's extremely inconsiderate to make someone else's parents care for you, at least with family you are still "within" your family in some way.

Extremely bad idea, family is the way to go if you plan on leaving. It's extremely inconsiderate to make someone else's parents care for you, at least with family you are still "within" your family in some way.


I'm thinkin about going to my grandpas, but he's tribal. He's an awesome guy, but I don't like the tribal aspect of it.


forget it, I'll call my dad and see if I can move in with him. I'm not even gonna bring it up with my mom.


Don't get me wrong, she's nice sometimes, but when she gets into an angry fit, all she does is blame me for all her problems and stuff.

I wish I could, but I'm only 16, that'd legally count as running away ]:

In the UK i think you can do that at 16....

But you need parental consent. Which you wouldnt get.

Besides you arent entitled to benefits and stuff until you're 18.

Extremely bad idea, family is the way to go if you plan on leaving. It's extremely inconsiderate to make someone else's parents care for you, at least with family you are still "within" your family in some way.
If you have a really trustworthy friend its not a bad idea. I have a friend thats extremely trustworthy.

If you have a really trustworthy friend its not a bad idea. I have a friend thats extremely trustworthy.

It's not the friend, it's their parents, it's not good to put them in a situation like that, if you like someone but can't support them, it's going to be very difficult to say "Sorry, you have to be abused I can't care for you.", it's like as the expression goes "Putting them between a rock and a hard place".
forget it, I'll call my dad and see if I can move in with him. I'm not even gonna bring it up with my mom.

Do it, if your father said this
my dad left her because as he said 'shes a psychotic bitch'.
he should understand.

If you run away to your dad without notifying your mom or the justice system, he could get charged with kidnapping.

If you're going to do something, make sure it's legal.

If you run away to your dad without notifying your mom or the justice system, he could get charged with kidnapping.

No he wouldn't, if he went out of his own free will he couldn't be prosecuted, however once she found out and he refused to let him go, that's where he can be charged with kidnapping.


It's not the friend, it's their parents, it's not good to put them in a situation like that, if you like someone but can't support them, it's going to be very difficult to say "Sorry, you have to be abused I can't care for you.", it's like as the expression goes "Putting them between a rock and a hard place".
Well it doesnt matter anyway because my friend gets his trustworthyness from his parents.

Well it doesnt matter anyway because my friend gets his trustworthyness from his parents.

Well then I guess it would be fine if your parents agree.