Been there tried that, waited a month, and then got called a douche!
You didn't try to even talk anything out, all you did was talk to other people saying "idk if she's even a girl anymore :(" and bugging the forget out of me when I wasn't ready to talk to you yet. If you had shown an ounce of intelligence when trying to contact me, maybe I would have listened.
But really, think about it, there was no reason for you to give out my email.