Have you ever seen any of Iban's posts?
Chances are, he has, and just did not read them with the same sort of biased disdain towards me as you do.
You have mentioned at least twice that you want to adopt a 12 year old girl.
The second part is what makes you an idiot.
I've contemplated adoption as a sort of later-in-life alternative to a typical family, as a consequence of castration. If you actually paid attention to our conversations, you'd know this.