The democrats are refusing to pass the budget bill, because the republicans are refusing to remove a clause that prohibits giving money to clinics and foundations that provide abortion services.
The Democrats are starfishs because, if the Government shuts down many services will be stalled and all military wages will be hung until such a time the government has been refunded.
The Republicans are starfishs because, this clause is useless. There are federal laws that prohibit spending tax dollars on abortion. De-funding these clinics are just making women's health services unavailable, abortions have always been privately funded.