I got whitelisted a long time ago but couldn't join due to some bug but it was fixed in 1.6.
Does Jaydee trust me enough for the location? I wouldn't go to all the trouble of walking to the place in such a huge world just to troll you. If I wanted to troll I wouldn't do it on such a civilized server.
EDIT: Never mind, it wasn't a problem with Minecraft that was fixed, it's actually some flaw with one of the server's plugins. I still can't join.