okay so like.
Why is it that when a person gets sucked the forget into a black hole, they get like spaghettified?
gravity is some magical ass particle or something that passes through everything yet magically tugs in an infinitely expansive and in the same fashion an infinitely decreasing force as you look farther down it's radius of pull.
I think the reason why is that let's say a metal box is falling in.
Parts of it that are behind it will be pulled on by the gravity particles that have less power, but the ones in front travel faster, so the ones in the back can't keep up, and then a space opens between them. But because it's all being pulled to the center, the sides of the box would get pulled to the center of the side facing the middle of the black hole. So it would be forced into a needle like shape.
So if you went head first into a black hole, you'd look like this.

But that means that like.
If we created a black hole on earth, and threw two molecules directly in, right next to each other. And recorded the difference between them after one second has passed, we could figure out how strong gravity is relative to the object or thing in the center, and how far away it was when we recorded the data! :D
Then we could use that info to market something to the general public that would appeal to the average person, like a pill that lets you hold an erection longer or a new television channel.
now I'm not sure if any of this makes sense to myself or you guys, but just read it and see if it does I guess.