Author Topic: Monocle has relieved himself of stressful relationship.  (Read 2143 times)

So, for the past 10 months, I've been dating a girl (Lynaya). Over the course of this, I had nothing but good times... for the first 6 months. Since around then, everything has gone downhill. We started fighting a lot about literally everything. She started doing things just to spite or annoy me. I would just ignore her sometimes so I wouldn't have to listen. And at the end of the day, we'd just be picking at eachothers wounds. We broke up 2 weeks ago at first (I did it) and we got back together a few hours later because I wanted to test if anything would change... it really didn't, thus I just broke up with her again about an hour ago. And I must say, apart from feeling like a total piece of stuff for breaking her heart, I feel a great weight lifted off of my chest. I am going to miss her, sure, I am going to want to be friends with her, but after some of the stuff that was said, and the stuff we've done, it'd either be incredibly awkward, or not at all.


Well, I just wanted to vent and get off of my chest. Begin the flaming for me 'LOEL BRAGING ABOUT GIRLFRIEND HURRR'

Aww, I hope you guys will still be friends. Try your best, ok? :(

Aww, I hope you guys will still be friends. Try your best, ok? :(

I'm just giving her her space, seeing as how I'm not in a bad state really, I'm just going to let her make the first move towards our friendship once she's ready. I don't want to make an attempt only to find out its tearing her heart out.

I shed a tear of black liquid sorrow for thee.

I'm just giving her her space, seeing as how I'm not in a bad state really, I'm just going to let her make the first move towards our friendship once she's ready. I don't want to make an attempt only to find out its tearing her heart out.
Oh yeah, maybe that's better. Either way, I hope everything will turn out alright in the end. <3

Hey Martin. :3
You just described Samantha/Crumpet and I's relationship.. since ours are both over, and we had virtually the same problems.
You're going to miss her. Just keep in mind why exactly you broke up with her. Unless she actually shows a change.. Don't forget up again. :s

Hey Martin. :3
You just described Samantha/Crumpet and I's relationship.. since ours are both over, and we had virtually the same problems.
You're going to miss her. Just keep in mind why exactly you broke up with her. Unless she actually shows a change.. Don't forget up again. :s
Oh god, not you guys too... D:

Good, you finally nutted up.

Oh god, not you guys too... D:
The world is coming to an end..!
I'll be perfectly honest. Legit every single day I haven't been with her.. I've become more. and more. and more gay.
It's bad.

I shed a tear of black liquid sorrow for thee.

Omg you're back. <3

And thanks.



You know, I didn't think it possible, but BL forums can actually be supportive. Thanks guys. [: Means a lot to me that even though I inadvertantly treat half of you like garbage, we're all still a dysfunctional family.

Well see most of the people supporting you are people you already know.. haha :P

Well see most of the people supporting you are people you already know.. haha :P

This is very true, haha. But none the less!

Wait, wtf? When did you and Sam break up?

Uhhhh
couple days ago.
It's okay though. The day after we broke up she kissed a guy and he bit her, so I'm glad I'm rid of that.

I shed a tear of black liquid sorrow for thee.
oh god you're back.


So, for the past 10 months, I've been dating a girl (Lynaya). Over the course of this, I had nothing but good times... for the first 6 months. Since around then, everything has gone downhill. We started fighting a lot about literally everything. She started doing things just to spite or annoy me. I would just ignore her sometimes so I wouldn't have to listen. And at the end of the day, we'd just be picking at eachothers wounds. We broke up 2 weeks ago at first (I did it) and we got back together a few hours later because I wanted to test if anything would change... it really didn't, thus I just broke up with her again about an hour ago. And I must say, apart from feeling like a total piece of stuff for breaking her heart, I feel a great weight lifted off of my chest. I am going to miss her, sure, I am going to want to be friends with her, but after some of the stuff that was said, and the stuff we've done, it'd either be incredibly awkward, or not at all.


Well, I just wanted to vent and get off of my chest. Begin the flaming for me 'LOEL BRAGING ABOUT GIRLFRIEND HURRR'
So what was the point of the "relationship" if you didn't actually like her.
If you don't like how someone acts, just stay away from them, simple.