Spoiled is when you're being showered with gifts every day and every time you ask for it.
I haven't received a gift in 3 years so it's a rare occasion for me T_T
I was saying that I don't agree it would make someone spoiled, please read.
But the way you said it in the OP made it seem like you got gifts all the time, I apologize.
Your family just says that because they don't love you, its ok I'm here for you. I may not know what its like to have my parents hate me but I'll give you a shoulder to cry on
Go forget off somewhere else, no one finds you funny.