Author Topic: My mother is biased  (Read 3830 times)

I need to vent because she is being biased and won't let me spend money on my interests.

Ever since I was little, she let me play stuff, but wondered why I needed new things. I had an old bat that was only 28 inches when I went into 5th grade, I asked her for a new one and she just questions me about it and I tell her why I needed a new one, since Im older and I need a longer bat. What she said was no and so I had to use the stuffty bats provided, 50 dollars is the price of a new bat thats decent. I asked for a new baseball glove since the dog chewed up my old one, it was 90 dollars and we got yelled at when we got home after buying it. I don't get paid to mow the lawn because she thinks its not work, and we have a big lawn. I even mentioned that people get paid to do that for a living, and she still says Im full of stuff.

My sister gets whatever she wants and gets anything she "needs" for horses, we spend 1000 dollars alone just to feed the 5 of them. Its loving unfair for her to get this treatment. THE ONLY loving REASON FOR THIS TREATMENT, is because my mother showed horses as a child.

tl;dr My mother lets my sister get stuff for her hobbies and not mine

Ever tried just saying no?


What?
Just refusing to mow that lawn, or whatever it is without getting paid.

If she says you're full of stuff, tell her she's just making excuses not to give you as many things as your sister gets.
I guess you should yell at her about the whole "sister is more loved" thing. If she doesn't react the way you want, lock yourself in your room and let her feelings sink in.
Often with moms they mask their feelings until they're alone.

Sports are gay, horses are cool

Just refusing to mow that lawn, or whatever it is without getting paid.
I do it for my dad, but I ask my mother to pay for it, besides I don't give a forget about that.
Sports are gay, horses are cool
Ikr
If she says you're full of stuff, tell her she's just making excuses not to give you as many things as your sister gets.
I guess you should yell at her about the whole "sister is more loved" thing. If she doesn't react the way you want, lock yourself in your room and let her feelings sink in.
Often with moms they mask their feelings until they're alone.
I've tried it before, she is thick skulled and wants to say "Ill put down 2 of them and sell the others" So she is incapable of having a discussion and admitting she's unfair, my sister has said that before and she still doesn't admit it.
« Last Edit: August 11, 2011, 10:50:13 PM by Slugger »

Give her a horse.
Bitches love horses.

Kill the horses.
Wait

Kill your mother.

How old are you? If you're old enough you can get a job.

My mommy is nice she gives me candies :))))




I never asked for an allowance and only got new toys on christmas my whole life
when i didnt do chores I was grounded
I think that was a fare system as my parents had to provide for me and pay for my food
ive felt this way since i can remember