My step dad..

[BlackMod]

maybe you could try being involved in what he likes

who knows, maybe you'll like hunting or camping

try bonding with him instead of just standing by waiting for something to happen

Best idea so far. But it is like meeting a kid a school you have nothing in common with and you have totally different outlooks on things.

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[james4115]

Best idea so far. But it is like meeting a kid a school you have nothing in common with and you have totally different outlooks on things.

it's like trying to make new friends

except he's legally allowed to call you his son

[BlackMod]

it's like trying to make new friends

except he's legally allowed to call you his son

Well played :3

But every time i try to talk to him about something he always judges me.

Me: "Hey mom I snuck off campus to go eat lunch today :D"
Mom: That's cool just what did you have?"

Me: "Hey Doug(I don't call him dad) I snuck off campus today for lunch :D
Doug: "what? are you loving stupid your going to end up in trouble, Im so mad at you"

just an example :P

[james4115]

Maybe he's judging you for truancy?
Just a thought

[Murkling]

Well played :3

But every time i try to talk to him about something he always judges me.

Me: "Hey mom I snuck off campus to go eat lunch today :D"
Mom: That's cool just what did you have?"

Me: "Hey Doug(I don't call him dad) I snuck off campus today for lunch :D
Doug: "what? are you loving stupid your going to end up in trouble, Im so mad at you"

just an example :P

Your mom is too easy on you.

[BlackMod]

Your mom is too easy on you.

She really isn't she just knows I'm good and trust me.

Always had good grades, honors classes, always do what she says, respectful to others. And she knows most of the people that work at the school i couldn't get in any big trouble..

[Aeschylus]

listen to Family Reunion by blink-182 to cheer you up

turn the volume down plz ok

[james4115]

She really isn't she just knows I'm good and trust me.

Always had good grades, honors classes, always do what she says, respectful to others. And she knows most of the people that work at the school i couldn't get in any big trouble..

since your step-dad is so noncommunitative he probably doesn't know you're so okay with the staff and things you're out smoking drugs and being truant

[BlackMod]

since your step-dad is so noncommunitative he probably doesn't know you're so okay with the staff and things you're out smoking drugs and being truant

Maybe, I've only drank with him because he sells wine. And smoking? never. I just really never think of it as important...But i guess it hurts him..

[james4115]

Maybe, I've only drank with him because he sells wine. And smoking? never. I just really never think of it as important...But i guess it hurts him..

he might be one of those uptight follow by the letter law following types, truancy and such might not be okay in his eyes

[Morpheus]

teach him how to longboard  (that's outdoorsy) and then you can bond together.

[BlackMod]

teach him how to longboard  (that's outdoorsy) and then you can bond together.

Yeah, im going to teach my 50 year old step dad how to longboard :3