Author Topic: Hankyje:"You cant have a relationship before 16  (Read 10016 times)

Okay, at this point you're just being ridiculous. You've said some stupid stuff thus far, but this is just ... stupid. Pure stupid.

pure hilarity sister

You mean, sleeping with someone then dumping them, oh ok I see now
Actually if you're 15 then sure practice love might be a good avenue.

the point is, there's no down side to short relationships in your teens. no point looking down on people who have them because you're too 'noble' or whatever you think you're achieving.

i respect only böltster,he is yet to have insulted me

i respect only böltster,he is yet to have insulted me
Lol
Actually if you're 15 then sure practice love might be a good avenue.

the point is, there's no down side to short relationships in your teens. no point looking down on people who have them because you're too 'noble' or whatever you think you're achieving.
This is a lie, and you know it too.

This is a lie, and you know it too.
Instead of trying to convince me that i'm lying, how about you actually give me reasons that it's a bad idea?

i have had short ones,it is not bad nor good

Instead of trying to convince me that i'm lying, how about you actually give me reasons that it's a bad idea?
It could ruin friendships with the person of possibly even other friends.


i have none tho lose
> Referring in general, not necessarily you.

It could ruin friendships with the person of possibly even other friends.
When i was your age i saw so many people have week relationships and it didn't ruin anything, because they're not "forever and ever" relationships. Ending a relationship isn't game breaking stuff at 15 and below, it's practice.

When you get to sort of 18+ there's assumed knowledge in a relationship. A girl will assume that you know what you're doing, and you know how you're meant to treat her. If you limit your own social development, you won't, and that should scare you.

When i was your age i saw so many people have week relationships and it didn't ruin anything, because they're not "forever and ever" relationships. Ending a relationship isn't game breaking stuff at 15 and below, it's practice.

When you get to sort of 18+ there's assumed knowledge in a relationship. A girl will assume that you know what you're doing, and you know how you're meant to treat her. If you limit your own social development, you won't, and that should scare you.
You can develop the knowledge of how to treat a girl and know what you're doing without having any relationships when you're young.

yes by being libidobot 3000

There is no point in having relationships before you are like 17/18 because they last like a week.

Some guy asked me if I'd go out with this girl and I told him no.
He asked me why and I replied
"Whats the point of having a girlfriend if its not going to be a real relationship, and anyways I could never see her except at school, and even then."
This is just your experience.
I have been with my current girlfriend for nearly 4 months now, we do a lot of things outside of school. It is a 'real relationship' you just need to try harder.

You can develop the knowledge of how to treat a girl and know what you're doing without having any relationships when you're young.
Reading about these sorts of things won't give you knowledge, it will give you false confidence. If you (or someone else) has trouble talking to girls, do you really think reading something will help them? no. Practice via doing.

You made a mistake turning the girl down (if that actually happened).

You can develop the knowledge of how to treat a girl and know what you're doing without having any relationships when you're young.
Google?




lol