what do you do? Go to the funeral. There is no use crying. I know how you feel, a few years ago my grandpa, great grandpa, great grandma, a cousin, a friend, another friend, and my moms friend all died within one year. that was a pretty rough one.. But I at least have a pretty good feeling about where they're headed. So I plan to just keep on trucking until I eventually get a chance to see them again.