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Break up with her?

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Author Topic: In a situation, need to make a decision  (Read 2875 times)

Okay yeah, the place I swore I'd never come to for female advice, well stuff.
It's not really advice I'm seeking, more like opinions.

So here's the situation, I need to decide if I should dump my current gf for a chance at some one better
Not a better looking girl or anything but just a better relationship

Current gf:
-pretty
-listens to same music as me
- She's smart
- we can forget around and Insult eachother comfortably
-shes not a gamer but plays games such as fall out, and bio shock
- loveual favors LOOOL
-funny as forget
- gets me
- we've Been dating for a while, breaking up with her
Won't just be an easy thing

Okay now reasons I want to dump her (you might not find this a big deal depending on I'f you've had a gf
Or just how you are in general):
-somebody else
- talks about other guys Infront of me
-clings to other guys Infront of me
- flirts with other guys Infront of me
- hugs other guys Infront of me
- doesn't really give a stuff if I'm mad or sad or ECt lol, heartless bitch basically
-just a bitch in general, but some times really nice

Alright now there's this other girl I may or may not be able to get with
Is it bad I kinda like another girl while I'm in a relationship? Yes but forget it.
I actually dont know too much about her but
-prettier
-a lot nicer
- I could feel like I'm in a more of a relationship than a friendship
With her
And yeah.

Tl;dr: do I ditch my bitch? What do you guys think?
« Last Edit: January 17, 2012, 07:22:34 PM by Mastercookiee »

forget her and chuck her

Go ahead and give it a try but if it doesn't work out and you lose both girls in the end, your forgeted.


I'd go with the one that is not what you currently have on account of what you said:

- loveual favors LOOOL
-somebody else
- talks about other guys Infront of me
-clings to other guys Infront of me
- flirts with other guys Infront of me
- hugs other guys Infront of me
- doesn't really give a stuff if I'm mad or sad or ECt lol, heartless bitch basically
-just a bitch in general, but some times really nice

I think those are all pretty good reasons, that's just me though.

Taking relationship advice from a forum for a virtual lego game.

Best logic.


Go ahead and give it a try but if it doesn't work out and you lose both girls in the end, your forgeted.
That's what I'm worried about, since I'm unexperinced with girlfriends I'm worried
She could have been my best relationship, and I'm going to regret it
Years later...

Taking relationship advice from a forum for a virtual lego game.

Best logic.
well it's more because there are the few here that actually would be glad to give good advice i guess.

granted it is a community full of hormonal teenage boys  :cookieMonster:

That's what I'm worried about, since I'm unexperinced with girlfriends I'm worried
She could have been my best relationship, and I'm going to regret it
Years later...
I would not worry about that at all, good sir. I wouldn't.

Have you talked to your current gf about these and how you feel?

Have you talked to your current gf about these and how you feel?
Yes she doesn't give a stuff, she changed for a week max than goes back
She gets mad when I GET jealous for her flirting with other guys


But don't get me wrong, she's been good to me recently,
And the times when she isn't a bitch she's great. Lol.
But sometimes i feel like we just best frands ya'know? LOL

/dontknowwhattodo

The fact that you're even considering another girl when you should be working on maintaining your own relationship with someone who you're supposed to love just screams out how much of a douchebag you are. Do your girlfriend a favor and dump her, and then avoid that other girl you've already cheated in your mind with before you treat her like stuff too.

-prettier

Case in point.

Tl;dr: do I ditch my bitch? What do you guys think?

Yeah, ditch her. You probably don't deserve her anyways.

The fact that you're even considering another girl when you should be working on maintaining your own relationship with someone who you're supposed to love just screams out how much of a douchebag you are. Do your girlfriend a favor and dump her, and then avoid that other girl you've already cheated in your mind with before you treat her like stuff too.
stocking have you ever been in love before


Dump her, and stay as friends.