Relationship Help Thread

[[JazZ]]

Relationship Help

Alright guys, and yes I mean guys.

You all know there's that one girl in school, that you don't have the game to get, or just need a little help spicing up your already in.  Well, I made this thread just for all of you.  Post questions, ideas, thoughts about that girl, or your relationship.  Or even just vent about stuff that has to do with relationships.  And yes, I'll be pretty active in this thread, seeing as I will probably need the most help. 

Heres a scenario or two I already need help with:
1) I messaged this girl on Facebook (I know), and she gave me her number, but then when I started texting her, she decides that she likes someone else.  And I'm okay with that, so I ask her if I'll ever have a chance in the future(Bad Decision) and she says she doesn't know me well enough to give a straight answer.  So I ask her can we just get to know each other better.  But then, she doesn't answer, and decides to tell her friends about me. 
Then. stuff hits the fan.
A black guy confronts me in the hall and asks me if I'm messing with this girl, I'm scared stuffless so I say no, he says "Alright, but if we do we gon' have problems"
So I see her in the hall and tell her off for having a black guy confront me like that, but I don't listen to what she says as I walk away.
Later, I go to apologize to her in the hall and she tells me not to talk to her, then yells at me for still trying, making a big scene at school.
Then I text her a lot later, and say I'm sorry for not listening to her, and she says back that "I don't know her, and I never will"
Guys. What the hell do i do?

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[[JazZ]]

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Lol?

[Böltster]

leave her the forget alone obviously

you should have backed off the second she resisted

[JamestheLeet]

She sounds like a bitch.
Stop liking her, durr.

[[JazZ]]

leave her the forget alone obviously

you should have backed off the second she resisted

But she never did, like, okay, I understand were your coming from, but.  She told me that "what I did would have worked on any other girl" but because she liked someone else, it didn't work. So like, she kept feeding me, but not giving me a chance...
You understand?

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Well thats kinda hard

[Tango]

She sounds like a bitch.
Stop liking her, durr.

one does not simply
stop liking a girl

[Böltster]

But she never did, like, okay, I understand were your coming from, but.  She told me that "what I did would have worked on any other girl" but because she liked someone else, it didn't work. So like, she kept feeding me, but not giving me a chance...
You understand?

I understand, but you said that she straight up said she liked someone else. That's the point where you go "ok, not a go'er" and leave her alone (or wait until whoever she likes forgets off)
what you've done is just bug her.

[[JazZ]]

one does not simply
stop liking a girl

Thank you master.
Thank you.

I understand, but you said that she straight up said she liked someone else. That's the point where you go "ok, not a go'er" and leave her alone (or wait until whoever she likes forgets off)
what you've done is just bug her.

True, so at this point do you guys think I have any chance at all left?

[Trifax]

I feel like OP just wanted to ask for advice, but he didn't want to make a thread just for that so he threw in the help desk thing to keep it alive :o

Anywho, sounds like you need to back off. She seems like a bitch and you don't want to have to deal with a girl who's going to send people out to tell you her thoughts.

[otto-san]

you've managed to bugger it up, i believe would be a good way to put it.

But she never did, like, okay, I understand were your coming from, but.  She told me that "what I did would have worked on any other girl" but because she liked someone else, it didn't work. So like, she kept feeding me, but not giving me a chance...
You understand?

she meant what she said obviously

[Ningyou]

I don't see what's the point in trying. You don't know her, she likes someone else and she sounds like a bitch. Give up.

[[JazZ]]

I feel like OP just wanted to ask for advice, but he didn't want to make a thread just for that so he threw in the help desk thing to keep it alive :o

Anywho, sounds like you need to back off. She seems like a bitch and you don't want to have to deal with a girl who's going to send people out to tell you her thoughts.

Naw, After all my stuff is done and gone, you guys can help each other, and I'll help out too.

I don't see what's the point in trying. You don't know her, she likes someone else and she sounds like a bitch. Give up.

Alright, but I'm 16 now, I know what I like in a girl before I actually "know" them, but shes also one of the hottest girls in school, so like, ya know?

[Böltster]

True, so at this point do you guys think I have any chance at all left?

no, you've roostered it up too much to bother.
if you had taken the hint that she didn't like you, you at least could have waited until the other guy left and then you might have had a chance. as it stands just leave her alone and try for someone else

[Trifax]

I say it would be worth it to keep trying if she didn't like somebody else, but just didn't feel convinced to go out with you. But the fact that she's so hard into somebody else (giggity) means you should move on.