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By the way, if you want to handle any situation involving a human better, it helps if you know how the person's mind works.

True, so at this point do you guys think I have any chance at all left?
If you had left her alone when she said she was interested in someone else you might have. After what you've done there is nothing you can do to salvage any potential relationship.

no, you've roostered it up too much to bother.
if you had taken the hint that she didn't like you, you at least could have waited until the other guy left and then you might have had a chance. as it stands just leave her alone and try for someone else
Alright, well I sure forgeted that up. Hm. Maybe- naw nevermind

If you had left her alone when she said she was interested in someone else you might have. After what you've done there is nothing you can do to salvage any potential relationship.

Well forget. Did't I just screw up.

I know what I like in a girl before I actually "know" them
No you don't. You can't know beforehand if a girl is going to be a complete bitch or not.

Naw, After all my stuff is done and gone, you guys can help each other, and I'll help out too.
but shes also one of the hottest girls in school, so like, ya know?
There we go again
>hot girl
>oh herp she must be the perfect girl for me

Alright, well I sure forgeted that up.



The fact that you bitched her out for sending a black guy out to you should have been the first sign.

No you don't. You can't know beforehand if a girl is going to be a complete bitch or not.
There we go again
>hot girl
>oh herp she must be the perfect girl for me
Well, okay, maybe not exactly. But a little bit at least
And yes she is hot,
but I based none of my judgments of her off her looks.

-snip-

The fact that you bitched her out for sending a black guy out to you should have been the first sign.
Okay?
She didn't deserve that?

Okay?
She didn't deserve that?
She deserves to be left alone and not hounded by a socially awkward spaz who can't take a hint. That's why she sent someone else to do her work for her; you frighten her.

I stopped reading after I saw that you asked if you'd have a chance. Motherforgeter you don't do that. You assert your position and if she doesn't like you, MAKE her like you. Prove to her that you are everything that is man, and that if she decides she doesn't want you, then forget her, move on. Don't dwell, don't waste your time waiting.

Confidence is key also.


Okay?
She didn't deserve that?

I'm not saying she didn't deserve it, I'm just saying it didn't help your situation.

She deserves to be left alone and not hounded by a socially awkward spaz who can't take a hint. That's why she sent someone else to do her work for her; you frighten her.
Hm. That sure was nice, okay then.

I stopped reading after I saw that you asked if you'd have a chance. Motherforgeter you don't do that. You assert your position and if she doesn't like you, MAKE her like you. Prove to her that you are everything that is man, and that if she decides she doesn't want you, then forget her, move on. Don't dwell, don't waste your time waiting.

Confidence is key also.


See thats the stuffty part, with every other girl I've ever talked to, I was that way.
But this time, I don't know what happened.

I'm not saying she didn't deserve it, I'm just saying it didn't help your situation.
Yeah. Figured that one out.

Doublepost:
Whos the motherforgeter who voted "try again a week later?"

Doublepost:
Whos the motherforgeter who voted "try again a week later?"

Well, you did put that option there so of course someone voted for it.

Well, you did put that option there so of course someone voted for it.
Well. I'm just trying to figure out if someone actually meant it.

Guys. I need some help. Again.
I keep thinking I might have a chance with this girl, and the urge to text her grows every minute.
What the hell do I do?

1. I messaged this girl on Facebook (I know), and she gave me her number, but then when I started texting her, she decides that she likes someone else.

2. And I'm okay with that, so I ask her if I'll ever have a chance in the future(Bad Decision) and she says she doesn't know me well enough to give a straight answer.

3. So I ask her can we just get to know each other better.  But then, she doesn't answer, and decides to tell her friends about me. 

4. A black guy confronts me in the hall and asks me if I'm messing with this girl

5. So I see her in the hall and tell her off for having a black guy confront me like that, but I don't listen to what she says as I walk away.

6. Later, I go to apologize to her in the hall and she tells me not to talk to her, then yells at me for still trying, making a big scene at school.

7. Then I text her a lot later, and say I'm sorry for not listening to her, and she says back that "I don't know her, and I never will"
1. Should always talk face-to-face at least once before actually texting or it's just awkward

2. Yes you're right way to learn from the mistake now don't do it again

3. Terribly awkward move, you should have apologized for asking that bad question and then just asked if you two could at least be friends, then get to know eachother that way and see how stuff went from there

4. mondays

5. You don't tell off the girl you're trying to get; hell for all you know she didn't even tell him to do that. And yeah walking away pretty much lowered your chances by a LOT, you have to be patient with women

6. This is where it would have been appropriate to text her; she wouldn't have to see your face if she's still pissed and no 'scene' would have happened

7. Once again, patience. If she was mad enough to make a scene she obviously doesn't want to talk to you, and texting her a lot, well, that must have been really annoying to her

all in all you have a lot of time to wait(more than a week) and even more explaining to do if you want another chance with her