Relationship Help Thread

[[JazZ]]

you are so pathetic it's painful

are you even thinking about how this is going to look from her point of view? you've harrassed her, and now you're begging her to forgive you like a little bitch

i don't know why you even made this thread when you've blatantly ignored all the good advice we've given you.

I'm not begging, im just saying sorry for not listening to her, and if she accepts/rejects it, I don't care either way, I just hate to leave like I did.

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[Böltster]

I'm not begging, im just saying sorry for not listening to her, and if she accepts/rejects it, I don't care either way, I just hate to leave like I did.

if you don't care either way, just leave her the forget alone - that's the best thing you can do for her. you've harrassed her enough and now any attempt at contact will just look like you're going back for more. you seriously can't be 16, i don't remember ever being this stupid

[[JazZ]]

Well, I am 16, I just don't know what to do.
Okay?
I just, I want another chance with this girl, and I can't figure out how to get one.
That's it.

[Böltster]

here's what you're doing right now. you're ignoring all the good, rational advice we're giving you, and waiting out until a single person says "try again!" so you can justify being a bigger loser than you already are.

you don't get another chance. leave her alone.

if you don't want to follow this advice, lock the thread and don't ever ask for advice again if you're not willing to actually make use of it.

[[JazZ]]

Alright,
I'll do it, I'll follow your advice, it's gonna be hard.
This sucks,
Alright guys,
Thanks for all your help.

[Böltster]

Alright,
I'll do it, I'll follow your advice, it's gonna be hard.
This sucks,
Alright guys,
Thanks for all your help.

i have no confidence in you, and i don't think you'll actually follow our advice, but good luck anyway.

[[JazZ]]

I will,
Your right, talking to her in any form, is just going to end in something bad, and I don't want to make things worse right now,
Thanks for all your advice

[[JazZ]]

UPDATE ON MY SCENARIO:
So, I went to school today,
And I was at lunch right?  My friends come up to the lunch line with me, and this kid I fought earlier in the school year comes up to me, tells me that he wants to fight again, because he lost last time.  I was alright, but you gotta wait till after school so I don't get suspended again.  And this motherforgeter squares up in my face.
But I see her sitting across the lunch room staring at me.
And I remember her telling me "I don't like guys who fight"
So I walk away from this dude, and tell him to wait after school.
Then I'm in class with her, and she keeps looking at me, but not a good look, a stuck-up look, like "I'm better than you"
So I catch her after class and try to talk to her and she says this:
"Don't talk to me" With her hand up in my face and stuff
Like what the hell?
So I was talking to her friends a little bit later, and they told me she said that "she was mad that I was talking to another girl now"
Like. What. The. Hell.
You tell me to not talk to you.
Tell me that you don't like me
Tell me that I don't have a chance
Then get mad at me for talking to another girl?
Damn that pissed me off,
So whats your guy's thoughts?

[Beachbum]

UPDATE ON MY SCENARIO:
So, I went to school today,
And I was at lunch right?  My friends come up to the lunch line with me, and this kid I fought earlier in the school year comes up to me, tells me that he wants to fight again, because he lost last time.  I was alright, but you gotta wait till after school so I don't get suspended again.  And this motherforgeter squares up in my face.
But I see her sitting across the lunch room staring at me.
And I remember her telling me "I don't like guys who fight"
So I walk away from this dude, and tell him to wait after school.
Then I'm in class with her, and she keeps looking at me, but not a good look, a stuck-up look, like "I'm better than you"
So I catch her after class and try to talk to her and she says this:
"Don't talk to me" With her hand up in my face and stuff
Like what the hell?
So I was talking to her friends a little bit later, and they told me she said that "she was mad that I was talking to another girl now"
Like. What. The. Hell.
You tell me to not talk to you.
Tell me that you don't like me
Tell me that I don't have a chance
Then get mad at me for talking to another girl?
Damn that pissed me off,
So whats your guy's thoughts?

my thought is that you should have punched that friend in the mouth when he got in your face. never back down you pusillanimous individual.

in seriousness;

My thought, and I've got quite a bit of experience in the subject, is just move on. She seems like a bitch. forget her. Not literally, but figuratively. forget her.

[[JazZ]]

my thought is that you should have punched that friend in the mouth when he got in your face. never back down you pusillanimous individual.

in seriousness;

My thought, and I've got quite a bit of experience in the subject, is just move on. She seems like a bitch. forget her. Not literally, but figuratively. forget her.

I kicked his ass the first time,
A senior losing to a freshman once is enough.
I didn't want to get suspended again, especially for 10 days

But like, why was she loving jealous?
That just pisses me off

[Beachbum]

I kicked his ass the first time,
A senior losing to a freshman once is enough.
I didn't want to get suspended again, especially for 10 days

But like, why was she loving jealous?
That just pisses me off

Lmfao, it's pathetic enough that he's picking a fight with a freshman to begin with. But take the suspension like a champ. Wear it like a battle scar.

Not really. It's bad, don't do that.



bitches are manipulative... bitches. they want nothing but your wallet, your richard, and your heart. And I don't mean your heart like they want to love you and care, I mean they want to take your heart and rip it out and play catch with it with their bitch-friends.

Not really, but you know. ;D

[[JazZ]]

Lmfao, it's pathetic enough that he's picking a fight with a freshman to begin with. But take the suspension like a champ. Wear it like a battle scar.

Not really. It's bad, don't do that.



bitches are manipulative... bitches. they want nothing but your wallet, your richard, and your heart. And I don't mean your heart like they want to love you and care, I mean they want to take your heart and rip it out and play catch with it with their bitch-friends.

Not really, but you know. ;D

Yeah, we actually fought a week after I even got to the school for the most pathetic reason ever
I sat in his lunch table chair and he says "get the forget out of my chair"
I said "You can say that nicer"
He says "But I won't"
I got the forget outta that chair and whooped his ass.


Ontopic:
Yeah. But she really isn't a bitch, I've never seen her act like that to a guy before.
Like, she was always nice to me and stuff until the day I went off on her in the hall and told her I wasn't going to talk to her anymore
Then she turned all mean
And jealous?
What the hell?

[TwenteFreak]

Like, she was always nice to me and stuff until the day I went off on her in the hall and told her I wasn't going to talk to her anymore
Then she turned all mean
And jealous?
What the hell?

Are you just stupid or what.

[[JazZ]]

Are you just stupid or what.

Um.
No?
I told her I wasn't talking to her anymore because she:

Told tell me to not talk to you.
Told me that you don't like me
Told me that I don't have a chance

Yeah.
So I told her I wouldn't talk to her anymore if that's the way she thought about me.
And she got all mean after I went off on her for having a black guy confront me, which, also, today I learned she had nothing to do with...

[[JazZ]]

Guys.
What do I do?
I truly want to date this girl.
But I can't figure out why she treats me like this.
Shes showing jealousy,
but I can't even say a word to her.
Because she won't let me
But if I could, I could fix everything
How do I get her to let me talk to her?