Wolfmaster has gotten pissy an argued his case poorly.
While you hold a valid point about the welcome message, I don't consider it quite strong enough to get someone unbanned. The welcome message isn't there to look pretty and tell everyone who has deficated on the server- it's there to inform everyone of /the/ biggest rule.
This is a serious roleplay.
You insult us, then tell us to do something for you. Did you honestly expect that to work? I'm not banning you, but instead, leaving your friend banned.
She should have read the welcome message, and you should have been much more polite.