Author Topic: Talk about stuffty relationships  (Read 4313 times)

guys, i could use some advice from an objective pov.  i dated a girl for little over 2 months, then we just stopped talking due to something of a misunderstanding on my part.  that was a little after christmas.  i've been trying to get over her since then, but so many things remind me of her that i can't just forget it.  i heard a good way to forget was to find a new girl, and i tried that.  i came really close to hooking up with 4 girls in the past couple months, but its always felt wrong and i always turned them down.  i hate it, and i can't figure out why i like her so much.  she's the only girl i've ever actually given a stuff about.

any advice on what to do now?

guys, i could use some advice from an objective pov.  i dated a girl for little over 2 months, then we just stopped talking due to something of a misunderstanding on my part.  that was a little after christmas.  i've been trying to get over her since then, but so many things remind me of her that i can't just forget it.  i heard a good way to forget was to find a new girl, and i tried that.  i came really close to hooking up with 4 girls in the past couple months, but its always felt wrong and i always turned them down.  i hate it, and i can't figure out why i like her so much.  she's the only girl i've ever actually given a stuff about.

any advice on what to do now?

Seriously, look for other girls. There is no medicine for love, just get over it and find someone else.

That is the only thing  that will work sadly.

I see no point with dating until I'm around 17-20. It's just needless drama and endless stupidity up until that age.
I think what you're trying to say is "I can't get girls."

Seriously, look for other girls. There is no medicine for love, just get over it and find someone else.

That is the only thing  that will work sadly.
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i don't want to.


to me, love is just a chemical, so i can turn that stuff off if it's causing pain.

to me, love is just a chemical, so i can turn that stuff off if it's causing pain.
you think that until you really care for somebody.  I used to think like you, too.

you think that until you really care for somebody.  I used to think like you, too.
i used to like this girl, she was great. she was funny, cute, and fun to be around. she seemed to always have something to talk about. it's not like i had a little crush, i loving loved this girl for the better part of a year. eventually she got a boyfriend and i just decided "well that's out of the question" and moved on. she's still friends with some of the girls i hang around, although i never see her or talk to her anymore.

i used to like this girl, she was great. she was funny, cute, and fun to be around. she seemed to always have something to talk about. it's not like i had a little crush, i loving loved this girl for the better part of a year. eventually she got a boyfriend and i just decided "well that's out of the question" and moved on. she's still friends with some of the girls i hang around, although i never see her or talk to her anymore.
the worst part is losing what you once had, imo.

Holystuff fred, that is the same exact thing what happen with me and this girl a couple months ago.

guys, i could use some advice from an objective pov.  i dated a girl for little over 2 months, then we just stopped talking due to something of a misunderstanding on my part.  that was a little after christmas.  i've been trying to get over her since then, but so many things remind me of her that i can't just forget it.  i heard a good way to forget was to find a new girl, and i tried that.  i came really close to hooking up with 4 girls in the past couple months, but its always felt wrong and i always turned them down.  i hate it, and i can't figure out why i like her so much.  she's the only girl i've ever actually given a stuff about.

any advice on what to do now?

This might sound a little harsh but if you're still talking to her, stop for now. It will give you time to find someone else.

Also, I'm sure there's things that you had less time for when you were dating her, so start doing those things again to fill the gap.

This might sound a little harsh but if you're still talking to her, stop for now. It will give you time to find someone else.

Also, I'm sure there's things that you had less time for when you were dating her, so start doing those things again to fill the gap.
I haven't talked to her since like, February.  It's ridiculous that I can't just forget her.

the worst part is losing what you once had, imo.
i thought about that too, back when i liked her. i thought that if i asked her out we couldn't be friends and it would forget up my relationship with the friends we shared. it doesn't really matter because she basically left all her friends behind, and if that's the way she treats her friends, then i'd like to say i've dodged a bullet.

I haven't talked to her since like, February.  It's ridiculous that I can't just forget her.
If you really like her that much you can always try and go back... Things won't be the same though.

Except that's a stuff brown townogy. To compare love to locks and keys is like saying that guys should be the ones searching for love, which is entirely false. If a girl wants to have love, what's stopping her? For some reason the media portrays girls having love a lot as bad, which confuses me. I think it'd take a lot of richard for your vagina to change much, anyway, there's no reason for this stupid bias.Pretty sure you're an idiot.
Are regular relationships always like this? No. loveual orientation doesn't change that.
It's because it's not loving hard for a girl to get laid unless shes a loving landwhale and she still has to be a loving ugly landwhale.