found a thread on 4chan and met some cool guys that hate scrubs that think Arma 2 should be a generic shooter so dayz is better and stuff
was fun.
I realised I don't really hate dayz, I just hate the players including most of the people in this thread besides a select few (ie messes, yndaa, kata Fred, star, miko, jacksaunt, lil, a few others etc)
scrubs learn to play Arma 2 before you play a mod