Author Topic: I hate puberty.  (Read 12735 times)

I really hope you at least consider what I say here, because it is something that is very important.  Defining "crush" as having feelings for a woman, you probably don't have a crush on any girls.  To actually love a person is to love them as a person, not as an object for pleasure (aka lovey time).  Don't allow yourself to be deluded into thinking that you care about the girl.  When you truly do care about her, which is to desire her well being above all your desires, then you'll know.

I have yet to experience that :P

I'm not saying that having a girlfriend at your age isn't okay.  It's actually pretty important to try to build relationships.  If I hadn't tried, I wouldn't have made any mistakes and wouldn't have learned from those mistakes.

Why would you hate puberty.

Do you not want to become a man?

Why would you hate puberty.

Do you not want to become a man?
Just going through it is not fun.

One time, during a presentation my voice cracked. Glade that stage of my life has been over.

Question - before puberty do you feel an urge to eat everything?
I had this, but it wasn't constant, only every now and then. Also, just wait for mood swings / depression. It comes and goes for some people. I really didn't have much to be depressed about, so I just waited it out really.

EDIT:
-snop-
Yes, keep this in mind. Great bit of advice.

puberty is great

now you can have love

I really hope you at least consider what I say here, because it is something that is very important.  Defining "crush" as having feelings for a woman, you probably don't have a crush on any girls.  To actually love a person is to love them as a person, not as an object for pleasure (aka lovey time).  Don't allow yourself to be deluded into thinking that you care about the girl.  When you truly do care about her, which is to desire her well being above all your desires, then you'll know.

I have yet to experience that :P

I'm not saying that having a girlfriend at your age isn't okay.  It's actually pretty important to try to build relationships.  If I hadn't tried, I wouldn't have made any mistakes and wouldn't have learned from those mistakes.
Thanks, but I do know that this girl is the one, I "desire" her, like you said.  I care about her. I believe this is love, but I may be wrong, if I'm wrong, just let me be wrong and learn my lesson :)

puberty is great

now you can have love

before puberty, i could watch disney movies with princesses without having random loveual thoughts

before puberty, i could watch disney movies with princesses without having random loveual thoughts

before puberty, i could watch disney movies with princesses without having random loveual thoughts
lol unfortunately this.
But without disney princess movies, just any show/movie in general :[

before puberty, i could watch disney movies with princesses without having random loveual thoughts
this

Just going through it is not fun.
the only bad part is the squeaky voice

the only bad part is the squeaky voice
And boners.
And sweat.
And wet dreams.


oh yes, and the pretentious feeling of wanting to forget any girl you meet