Casey, listen.
The forums isn't a nice place for guys like you, and I'm not pointing this out as a mean way of saying it.
The best advice I can give you is that if someone discriminating your name or something along those lines comes to you, just change your name or if you'd rather keep your name, ignore it.
Usually, this kind of thing isn't that big of a problem, but when it comes to these forums, they don't take it too....
It's just not really the place for that kind of stuff due to the massive conflicting points of view people have around here.
That's all I have to say, and I don't mean to be mean in anyway, I'm just trying to help you.