Everyone in the forums is supposed to be mean, Badspot is like this some times, but that's only because some members annoy the crap out of him with all the Please dont do v21 and other BS that violates rules and such or just gets annoying.
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So yea we understand you a new member here but if your going to be here you have to be like others, one of the rules is to not plea for sympathy.
And do you really think hes going to commit Self Delete!?
Don't you think the guy is probably trolling?
I'm pretty sure when he just pokes his skin he will say that Self Delete is painful so hes not going to do it.
You have to quit being so gullible, its the internet, Facebook gets more post related to Self Delete more loving often than this.