YOU LAUGH YOU LOSE v666

[Grieg Kaun]

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[SuperSuit12]

refusing to have love with her is abuse

wait what

[otto-san]

wait what

specifically refusing to have love as a punishment to prove a point and make your partner feel bad would be emotionally abusive

[crazies alt]

specifically refusing to have love as a punishment to prove a point and make your partner feel bad would be emotionally abusive

''have love with me''
''no''
''wow abuse!!!!!''

[otto-san]

''have love with me''
''no''
''wow abuse!!!!!''

context is everything my dude

[beachbum111111]

context is everything my dude

love is not a right that someone is forced to give. I can't think of any context where refusing to have love is abusive.

[otto-san]

love is not a right that someone is forced to give. I can't think of any context where refusing to have love is abusive.

the one i gave? not wanting to have love is fine, but refusing just for the sake of proving a point or to make your partner feel bad for something is definitely conceivable abuse. it's obviously not always abuse to refuse to have love, that'd be a ridiculous claim. it'd go hand in hand with things like insulting your partner's appearance; it's definitely something that an abuser can weaponize against someone they're intimate with.

i suppose rather than "context" i should've said "intent"

[Master Matthew²]

Oh oh ooh

[SuperSuit12]

specifically refusing to have love as a punishment to prove a point and make your partner feel bad would be emotionally abusive

ahhhhhhhh
in that context it makes sense

[beachbum111111]

the one i gave? not wanting to have love is fine, but refusing just for the sake of proving a point or to make your partner feel bad for something is definitely conceivable abuse. it's obviously not always abuse to refuse to have love, that'd be a ridiculous claim. it'd go hand in hand with things like insulting your partner's appearance; it's definitely something that an abuser can weaponize against someone they're intimate with.

i suppose rather than "context" i should've said "intent"

Making someone feel bad to prove a point is not abuse. Especially if it's refusing to have love. Abuse would be forcing the person to have love. Anything can be considered "emotional abuse" nowadays.

Disagreeing with someone on the internet can be considered emotional abuse.

[otto-san]

Making someone feel bad to prove a point is not abuse.

it definitely is. intentionally causing someone emotional harm to manipulate them is absolutely emotional abuse.

[Daswiruch]

i think there's a big difference between 'making someone feel bad' and actual emotional harm

[otto-san]

i think there's a big difference between 'making someone feel bad' and actual emotional harm

right, it becomes abuse when you do it on purpose, to some advantage of your own. if it happens on accident or if you don't want it to happen then that's different

[Foxscotch]

Making someone feel bad to prove a point is not abuse.

why would you want your partner to feel bad if not because you are abusive lol

[crazies alt]

how do you purposely not have love, otto
you either want to or dont want to