love is not a right that someone is forced to give. I can't think of any context where refusing to have love is abusive.
the one i gave? not wanting to have love is fine, but refusing just for the sake of proving a point or to make your partner feel bad for something is definitely conceivable abuse. it's obviously not
always abuse to refuse to have love, that'd be a ridiculous claim. it'd go hand in hand with things like insulting your partner's appearance; it's definitely something that an abuser can weaponize against someone they're intimate with.
i suppose rather than "context" i should've said "intent"