Absolutely!!
in this fantasy regiment of yours, Bronies are allowed to post wherever, like usual, but if anyone back talks and tries to say something anti-brony they get banned?
Okay, you've identified that people like to differ themselves from the norm to seem unique. What's new?
the thing is it's not new at all- it happened before, and i'm sure you know what giant fire-starting fandom i'm referring to.
the thing is, it's not like it's super easy to ignore it. I know, yeah, scroll past it, what's the big deal... but i mean, it's always there. the MLP topic is practically stickied, and that number of pages- even for that split second you look at it, it's giant!
you said people speak out because they don't like the show, which is true, and that they need to not be so hasty in their retort, but every argument has its catalyst- there's never been a flame war where it was one sided, ohhh no. the only way it's going to stop is not that we need to stop hating, but it honestly has to be a mutual agreement.