Author Topic: A heart of stone  (Read 2537 times)

Look, I may be over thinking it, but I just got really hurt after something that SailorMan said hit home.

In any case, a few days ago, I was looking around for a decent server, and since I couldn't find any, I was wondering when the WWII Dogfight would be up. Wondering about that, I found him on IRC, and attempted to contact him. He immediately blocked me, and I couldn't really understand why.
So, upon joining his server later today, I asked him about it.

I completely get that people asking about "when your server is gonna be up" is annoying as forget, I get that.
He could have just told me that, instead, but he decided to say that I never talk to him, except this one time when I decided to ask him about the server. He said that he doesn't like his "fans" following him.

It really takes some nerve to say that sorta thing.
I've always talked to him, enjoyed his company when I play on his server, and enjoy playing on it in general,
but I am no "Fan" of anyone
Sure, I like it, but Im not some goddamn fan who follows his every move, I just wanted to have some indication if the server was up, because frankly I've been bored as stuff lately.
The fact that he would assume Im a "fan" of him, is really arrogant of him, and It really hurt.

Treating me like stuff, telling me to "forget off" because I asked him about the server, doesn't mean I only care about the server, and it doesn't mean i'm some idiot who follows him around.

TL; DR: SailorMan was a real jerk over something that he arrogantly assumed had to do with me only caring about the server, and not him.

I really have nothing against him, I really don't. I like him, and his server, but treating me like that was just wrong.

/discuss

"fans"? Who even is this guy?

"fans"? Who even is this guy?

He hosts a very popular WWII Dogfight.

Well, if he doesn't want to talk, guess you can't talk to him. If he is like that to others, I'm sure they'd find other things to do.

Sorry to hear. :(

SailorMan? he hosts a popular WWII dogefight

Well first off, we both said we were sorry, I thought we had established that. Also, I meant fans of my server. I didnt mean to hurt you in any way, and forgive me, I was having a bad day to begin with. I was really tired, and not in the mood for anything. And when I play for a while on some thing I host a lot and I am really tired I basically turn into a blockland zombie, not really thinking, f you catch my drift.  But in the last week and a half I have had so many friend requests. I say "I do not know you at all." And they say "Well I know your server" and that is annoying.. I assumed that you were one of those "Fans of the server."

I admitted before and admit again that I should not have jumped the gun on that. And again, if I hurt your feelings in any way, I am sorry. Like we established on my server before... And, did you notice that I unblocked you a little while later

[size=1opt]Again, sorry. I dont want a stuff storm to brew. I said I am sorry, and I hope that you all just get that.

Damn you small text... Oops.

He doesn't tolerate much crap.

im so pop ular and i hav tons of fans so anoyin omg

im so pop ular and i hav tons of fans so anoyin omg
Not to be rude, but can you please re-read my post? And I did not say that, I said I have many fans of the Server and that my SERVER is popular.

Sailor wrote a nice apology, I don't know if making this public motivated him to do so though. 

Now become BFF ;)

This is like, the perfect drama topic.  It basically got resolved.

I hope.. that, like, the OP accepts the apology.  If he doesn't then it would... totally... not be the perfect drama topic.

Well first off, we both said we were sorry, I thought we had established that. Also, I meant fans of my server. I didnt mean to hurt you in any way, and forgive me, I was having a bad day to begin with. I was really tired, and not in the mood for anything. And when I play for a while on some thing I host a lot and I am really tired I basically turn into a blockland zombie, not really thinking, f you catch my drift.  But in the last week and a half I have had so many friend requests. I say "I do not know you at all." And they say "Well I know your server" and that is annoying.. I assumed that you were one of those "Fans of the server."

I admitted before and admit again that I should not have jumped the gun on that. And again, if I hurt your feelings in any way, I am sorry. Like we established on my server before... And, did you notice that I unblocked you a little while later

Thanks man, completely forgiven, like we talked it over, thanks for responding, glad we got this patched up. :)

[size=1opt]Again, sorry. I dont want a stuff storm to brew. I said I am sorry, and I hope that you all just get that.

Sailor wrote a nice apology, I don't know if making this public motivated him to do so though. 

Now become BFF ;)

My thoughts exactly. :D

This is like, the perfect drama topic.  It basically got resolved.

I hope.. that, like, the OP accepts the apology.  If he doesn't then it would... totally... not be the perfect drama topic.

Totally accepted, it all worked out in the end. :D