Where else did it happen?
I saw people getting banned who admitted to their in-game douchebaggery on the forums. There was one guy who posted a story about how he faked being a kid's friend in order to ruin his server.
Although bans are always at Badspot's discretion, so you might get away with that one.
On the other hand, I have a reason to believe that most "girls" who host these kinds of servers are actually creepy old men.