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-Person joins your server
-Person wants you to help them build something
-You psychobrown townyze them and think they are manipulative
-<next day>
-She comes back, asks you if you want to help
-You say yes
-She asks you to make some things
-You sperg out and start freaking out over the slightest hint of authority
-You call her bossy
-She apologizes, and says she was just trying to follow her idea
-You decide to stop talking to her by lying about a dead relative and saying you have to goFrom what I see, this girl wanted to build something and you flipped out because you're a control freak.
Furthermore, you faked your own grandmother's death in an attempt to avoid telling her you didn't want to work on the project and also to gain sympathy. This is almost reminiscent of Münchausen syndrome by proxy.
This person is not manipulative, you are just
loving batstuff crazy.