Author Topic: I'm going to be a father in 7 1/2 months  (Read 21487 times)

If you really intend on being a father, good luck and congratulations (seriously).  P.S. please for the love of forget find some way to get a good job soon.  A family costs money.  If you intend on raising a kid in this world, don't raise them without the means to do so properly.

Alternatively, you can put the child for adoption.  However I'm assuming you have discussed this with your girlfriend and family before telling people on an online forum, so anyways congratulations.

Again, good luck and congratulations.

P.P.S. if there is anything I can offer, do not be like a certain father I know and not interact with your child for the majority of their young life and then suddenly come in once they're growing up to be an adult.

wait
does this mean you wont be coding Dio's CityRPG :cookieMonster:
jk bro good luck <3

even though i don't know you very well good luck <3




I would make sure you get a well paying job because if you plan to support a child it's $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ spent like crazy

I think you should go on one of those teen parenthood shows, and cry a lot when trying to decide if you'll keep it or not.
And make it a 5 part series so that you'll earn more money.

Hey guys, so recently I've had a lot of things going on, and a lot of stress that comes with it all.

I'm currently 16 years old, going to be 17 this December.  A week or so ago my girlfriend noticed that she had missed her period, so she took a pregnancy test, as we've been active in loveual activity recently, and next thing you know.  I'm going to be a dad.

I'm not entirely sure what I take from this, a part of me wants to sit and embrace the child within myself and isolate myself, and the other half wants to be the man I'm supposed to be and get my life together so I can make this work.  I'm really torn right now.

So yeah, I'm not here to plead for your sympathy, I want your guys' opinions and/or your own stories about things like this.  I'm also 100% open to criticism, as long as it's not as far as flaming.

/discuss

Look at your avatar.
This is the solution.

Terrible opinion.
...

You know what, never mind. Not gonna respond to that either.

Look at your avatar.
This is the solution.
...Weed?

Congrats! I hope it all works out for you!

...

You know what, never mind. Not gonna respond to that either.
...Weed?
he was refering to your avatar
he wants him to shoot his fetus child thing
...

how are you going to celebrate not a fathers day D:
jk but uh
good luck supporting your lady
because she's gonna eat
a lot

Thank you haha, my grandparents will support both me and her, however we are looked upon to support each other morally and emotionally, and the baby financially.

Hunter, name the child after me.

To be completely honest, it probably won't even be my choice, more of just saying okay to whatever her mind conjures up

Congratulations :)

Thank you :)

Erm, Yola, I was just sent a message calling into question the veracity of you having had a girlfriend for seven months.

We smell drama.

Ah, well before we get into this, allow me to explain.

I'm fairly sure of it being related to 'AdinX' and/or a topic I may or may not have posted here before, the girl I have been in a relationship with has not been consecutively.  We started dating around 7 months ago, left each other a month after school ended for summer break, and we recently got together again around a month and a half ago.

I hope that clears anything up for you :)

If you really intend on being a father, good luck and congratulations (seriously).  P.S. please for the love of forget find some way to get a good job soon.  A family costs money.  If you intend on raising a kid in this world, don't raise them without the means to do so properly.

Alternatively, you can put the child for adoption.  However I'm assuming you have discussed this with your girlfriend and family before telling people on an online forum, so anyways congratulations.

Again, good luck and congratulations.

Thank you very much, I'm looking into a full time 40 hour/week job at a local computer building/programming shop.

wait
does this mean you wont be coding Dio's CityRPG :cookieMonster:
jk bro good luck <3

Hahaha, I'll hopefully still have my leisurely computer time!

even though i don't know you very well good luck <3

Thank you :)

My opinion:

Abortion

Not going to happen!

I would make sure you get a well paying job because if you plan to support a child it's $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ spent like crazy

I know, that's why I plan on getting a good job :)

I think you should go on one of those teen parenthood shows, and cry a lot when trying to decide if you'll keep it or not.
And make it a 5 part series so that you'll earn more money.

Definitely, I want to use my own child for monetary gain [/sarcasm] :)

Look at your avatar.
This is the solution.

I smoke marijuana at the most 3 times a month at the most stressful times, and I plan to stop cold.  Changed the avatar due to the amount of people saying they didn't like my "Yolo" avatar.

Congrats! I hope it all works out for you!

Thank you :)

So...
Was she on birth control?
Were you wearing a condom?
Are you a pre-mature ejaculator?

But apart from all that congrats.