If I've been an ass lately, this is why.

[hodototman]

"I"LL ALWAY REALLY REALLY DISLIKE YOU"

what

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[DRILL3R49]

When it comes down to it get out the brass knuckles

Don't do that.

[hodototman]

When it comes down to it get out the brass knuckles

Don't do that.

y not

jks

[Sat]

y not

jks

This guy knows his stuff.  Steel broadswords ftw.

[hodototman]

This guy knows his stuff.  Steel broadswords ftw.

it seems we're out of the full caps now

it's getting better

[Mysteroo]

I read the main post and that's all I think I need to. You're 13, 13 year old girls are going through a LOT of hormonal changes right now. Here's what I would do
     Be the better person. If she wants to hold onto whatever it is that made her mad, let her. But first do all that you can to make things right. Apologize, you don't know what you did so just apologize for hurting her feelings, because whatever it is apparently hurt her feelings. Don't get angry about it, that will only make things worse. Don't try to tell her off, or put her in her place, or try to make her feel bad or anything like that. While it's very tempting, (and she probably deserves it based on your description) it will only make her negative feeling towards you stronger. When people get really emotional, often they don't listen to reason. They make up their own logic and stick to it. Just be as nice as you can, and let it go

[Cool Boi]

Sounds like a bitch.

[hodototman]

I read the main post and that's all I think I need to. You're 13, 13 year old girls are going through a LOT of hormonal changes right now. Here's what I would do
     Be the better person. If she wants to hold onto whatever it is that made her mad, let her. But first do all that you can to make things right. Apologize, you don't know what you did so just apologize for hurting her feelings, because whatever it is apparently hurt her feelings. Don't get angry about it, that will only make things worse. Don't try to tell her off, or put her in her place, or try to make her feel bad or anything like that. While it's very tempting, (and she probably deserves it based on your description) it will only make her negative feeling towards you stronger. When people get really emotional, often they don't listen to reason. They make up their own logic and stick to it. Just be as nice as you can, and let it go

We're getting better

now it's normal conversation

[YourBuddyBill]

Well, what I can say is, some people just aren't worth your trouble, and you gotta make up your mind.
Either A) You want to mend the rift between you two
or B) You never want to hear from her again.

If you pick B, block her email and don't even bother with her again. She's not worth your time and all she'll do is be a jackass, so best not to feed the attention-whoring troll.
If you pick A, good luck with that. It's a pain in the ass and she might ignore all your efforts anyway and just keep taking stuff out on you for no reason. And the worst part is she'll think it's 100% OK for her to do that to you, even if she'd hate for you to do that to her. I've had some experience with her kind (not as exes, mind you; I just deal with enough of them every day of my life that it should count for something. Also, some of my friends have exes of the sort) and I can tell you that if she's as bad as you make her sound, you're not going to get anywhere until she grows a brain.

Whichever you chose, best of luck to you.

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And it's as a wise man sang:

"I'm believin' too much in all the stuff in my head
It's a hassle in the mornin' to get up outta bed
I'm holding on to secrets that are too hard to see
And I'm thinking everybody is a-better than me.
I try to keep doing what I think I gotta do
If I make a mistake you're gonna think I'm a fool
I'm always back again to the point where I began
I'm afraid I need help - don't offer your hand
I know, you know, they know, we know
I don't know nothin' but I gotta keep bluffin'
I'm thinkin', they're thinkin', you're thinkin' I'll drink
Feel so confused that I think I wanna sink
It's so hard to talk when you're walking in shock
It's so hard to see when you're pretending you're free
Don't know how to give, and I've had all I can take
Everybody's to blame, when you can't play the game

I've been namin' and a-gamin' and a-framin' and a-blamin'
It's a pattern I've been weaving for a long long time
It's hard to begin, but surrender means win
And it certainly is better than losing your mind
I know that you've been thinkin' I've been talkin' 'bout me,
I made it that way for a purpose you see
Scatman's really only tryin' to get through
To help you discover he be talkin' 'bout you
The things that hold me back are right here in my head
The saboteur, he can't endure, he has to go to bed
I wanna live illogically in spite of what I think
I think that my opinion should be thrown in the sink
I wanna do better, but I don't know how
But if I'm gonna start I better start right now
I try to survive and I gotta let you know
If I'm gonna live at all I gotta gotta let go"
-Scatman John

[Destroyer]

First of all, you really should not have "yelled" at her in front of others. If you were upset with her pull her aside and let her know, no need to bring other people watching into it.

Second, no matter how much she says "I don't want to talk to you" its obvious that isn't true. If she didn't want to talk she wouldn't be emailing you. She can say that all she wants but actions speak louder than words. Whether she doesn't want to let you go or is just feeding off the drama is up for debate.

I recommend not talking to her for a week or two. Ignore any messages she sends and don't talk to her in person. Remember she still wants to talk to you so ignoring her will show that you will no longer put up with the harassment. In a week or so the situation should have boiled down enough to remain at least civil or to start rebuilding whatever you want to from this whole thing, if anything,

[Blocklandian¹]

That sounds like what blocklandian used to say.

I used to tell users that? Interesting

[S7]

Yep. You yelled at her once, ALL HELL BREAKS LOOSE. Jesus Christ, people are incredibly insensitive towards blood and gore these days, but if you show the slightest bit of aggression? Man. She just wants you to be her bitch.

[Flubbman]

sounds like a huge bitch

[Clone v.117]

Tell her she sucks at using sentence structure.

[Nethog]

Sorry, I was joking.  Like last year or so this is what everyone said in any topic about a girl


Edit:  Lol just search it.  If the topics weren't too old I would quote a few.

wait people dont say this anymore?