Author Topic: Give me ideas on how to ask out a girl.  (Read 7244 times)

Step #1

Talk to her first of all, she's not going to come running to you.

Actually care how you appear, wear cologne, WASH YOUR HAIR (with conditioner), and dress nicely.

Step #2

Get to know her better, ask her questions like, "Do you like any sports?" or "What's your favorite color?", don't go straight for the jokes or pick-up lines.

Add her on Facebook or a social networking website, and say, "Hi" and "How are you?", and all that good stuff. (NOTE: If she's intellectual, use grammar, that's a major turn off right there.)

Step #3

Ask her to hang out somewhere like the ice rink, or go bowling.

Have fun, do activities (not loveually), hang out with her and her friends.

You should most likely be good friends at this point.

Step #4

Go for it, ask her to if you want to go out sometime, go catch a movie. If she says no, wait longer.


Oh my god I absolutely, loving, lost, it.

Elecro you are not in a position to be giving advice on girls at all.
Step 1 p2) I told YOU this in your stupid poem topic like a month or two ago, and you didn't listen, good job!
Step 2 p2) No. Loool. Do NOT do this, ever.

You know what?  This entire 'guide' is stuff, Elecro, stay away from girls and/or giving advice on girls.  You'll be doing society a favor, trust me

Oh my god I absolutely, loving, lost, it.

Elecro you are not in a position to be giving advice on girls at all.
Step 1 p2) I told YOU this in your stupid poem topic like a month or two ago, and you didn't listen, good job!
Step 2 p2) No. Loool. Do NOT do this, ever.

You know what?  This entire 'guide' is stuff, Elecro, stay away from girls and/or giving advice on girls.  You'll be doing society a favor, trust me

Why would I have to listen to you?

Why would I have to listen to you?
Listen to everyone, your guide loving sucks.



Also, my posts got thrashed by newpage :(
The truth is, there is no definitive fixed guide that you follow; be versatile. You have to be yourself and put yourself into an uncomfortable situation... eventually you will wake up out of that uncomfortableness and be like "wow, I have the best GF ever" and your relationship will grow. You probably will fail but learn from your mistakes. Start sizing up the girl's personality right from the start and try to bring up conversations that she might like, I don't know maybe try to make her laugh but don't constantly be telling jokes. You also have to realize that some people just aren't compatible, that's fine you'll eventually find the perfect fit. Know when to break up if you have to. Good luck OP. Also, a car helps.
Double post 2 bump. Don't spend too little time with her but at the same time, don't be clingy and tell her that you also have to have time with your friends. Don't lose them for a GF you probably will break up with. Don't date multiple girls at once, you will get a bad rep. Dont be too fast for love, but at the same time dont be too slow. Some girls will want it right away first date, some wont. Dont do that one night stand stuff. I could say more, but meh.
lulz

Why would I have to listen to you?
because you loving asked for advice?

Why would I have to listen to you?
because you're 13 and you're not doctor phil



just ask her out OP.  "wanna go see a movie with me this weekend?"  replace movie with any other activity.  bam.  you're done.

That was a while ago, I don't remember every loving post I see.


There is no 'guide'.

There are no guidelines at all for that matter rather than common sense.

It is a human being. Interact.
Humans are simple on a certain level, but they are different, arbitrary, inconsistent, and imperfect enough to be above 'guides'.

Push through detrimental emotion.
Toss caution to the wind when caution becomes too restrictive.

Why would I have to listen to you?

mainly because he has clearly gotten quite a bit of pusillanimous individual to have a kid and you're a virgin who never had a girlfriend

Why would I have to listen to you?
Never said you had to.

That was a while ago, I don't remember every loving post I see.
Don't post random stuff then?

There is no 'guide'.

There are no guidelines at all for that matter rather than common sense.

It is a human being. Interact.
Humans are simple on a certain level, but they are different, arbitrary, inconsistent, and imperfect enough to be above 'guides'.

Push through detrimental emotion.
Toss caution to the wind when caution becomes too restrictive.
<3


mainly because he has clearly gotten quite a bit of pusillanimous individual to have a kid and you're a virgin who never had a girlfriend

What does not having love have to do with relationships? love isn't all about a relationship.

What does not having love have to do with relationships? love isn't all about a relationship.

you only had a girlfriend on club penguin or roblox or whatever so you have nothing to say in terms of relationship advice

you only had a girlfriend on club penguin or roblox or whatever so you have nothing to say in terms of relationship advice

I'm pretty sure I've read enough articles to know what goes on.

What does not having love have to do with relationships? love isn't all about a relationship.
depends on what level of 'complexity' you're talking

the reason love exists at all is for reproduction's sake really