Author Topic: I am really lame  (Read 2662 times)

Solution: be like everyone else. Don't be 'you.' The new you will be much better, because everyone agrees with it. Your own opinion, thoughts, feelings, beliefs and values won't matter anymore. Why? Because no one cares about them. They are like-minded and selfish. Conform immediately for instant gratification. Join them. Don't fight. 'You' don't exist. No one exists. No one should exist. Because everyone's afraid of change.

It's a battle of deciding if you want to be you or someone else.

High school sucked.

The teachers own you, you get tons of stuffty homework, and it's basically a prison where you learn useless stuff.

When you get to college you're going to love it, so for now, you just have to get through HS. 

If you can find friends you will enjoy it more, and time will pass faster.

High school sucked.

The teachers own you, you get tons of stuffty homework, and it's basically a prison where you learn useless stuff.

When you get to college you're going to love it, so for now, you just have to get through HS. 

If you can find friends you will enjoy it more, and time will pass faster.
This.

Also in college (at least for me) it was extremely easy making new friends.
You choose the classes for the job you want in the future, of course there are some mandatory classes, but it will be easy talking in those classes because you have something in common, you chose that class because you like the subject.

that's some very valuable information
there's over 8 pages of people with that name
Yeah, that was dumb of me.
http://steamcommunity.com/id/YoLookFawkes

Everything that Clone said. Also are you good at any sports? Joining a sports team would be a brilliant way to make friends, whether it's football/soccer or rugby or volley-ball or handball or whatever, you'd get to talk to people and become friends over time!

At the moment I also have no proper friends nearby, and trying to find them is hard, but it isn't impossible. I just started at a new school and was as nice as I could be to the people who I had good first impressions of, now I hang around with them at school even though I don't really know them or see them out of school. Just try speaking to people and don't worry if you're annoying them or not, if they're annoyed that someone is trying to be friends with them then you probably don't want to be their friend c;
Also joining band, I joined band back in 6th grade but in my highschool you can join 9th grade whether or not you've playd an instrument before. I have a bunch of friends in band not to mention I enjoy playing my instrument.

I probably have 5 or 6 friends, they're all guys and video game nerds. Although my best friend is a girl.

Best way imo for you to stop being pathetic, limit yourself to internet access. It means you will have more spare time to do other things. Pick up a sport/hobby, learn to do something for the sake of learning it. Me myself, I plan on learning some blacksmithing because i have always been interested. At a certain point if you stick with something, you could be like "hey i know how to make X". If you shut yourself in, you cant be a social butterfly if you are locked in a cage.

Having hobbies/interests that go against the majority of people is a bad idea, when was the last time you heard of a child enthusiast or a murderer being the most popular person in town.  As cliche as this is, it is smart to fit in, i dont mean changing who you are, just dont tell everyone the whole story about you.

Most obvious advice ever: Just act casual and talk to someone. If you sit there worrying about it and getting nervous, you wont make a positive impression.

I plan on learning some blacksmithing
I'm also planning on doing this sometime soon, my opinion of you just went from 'Neutral' to 'like' congratulations!

I already play an instrument in my high school's band
and marching band, during the football season
I think I'm pretty alright at it
but it's the same thing as the rest of the school

When I get home I'm going to write so much to this.

When I get home I'm going to write so much to this.
I just messaged him on Skype only because I don't think that everyone needs to know what I say to him. Of course it's more personal though.

Like what I write wont be personal.

Like what I write wont be personal.
And that's why you message him, That's kinda what I was going at. Unless you don't really care if people know.

And that's why you message him, That's kinda what I was going at. Unless you don't really care if people know.
Id rather they know.
Call it a PSA.