I can not talk to women effectively.

[Donro98]

well it's good to just keep doing it

like when you walk into a room the first decent/attractive girl you see just talk to her.  bring up whatever comes to mind.

idk man it was a pretty natural progression for me, though freshman year i was 100% like you

Gives me hope, thanks Rave

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[dotdothexagon]

Wrong thread?

Thanks.

[SlayerZ99]

Wrong thread?

[RedGajin]

do they still sell lye
like i hear jokes about it all the time, but i've never actually seen it at walmart or anything

[Plexious]

Do it over Facebook and texts. Anybody can do that.

[BubbaGum]

"If I don't talk to girls then my depression will get worse"
The key to overcoming depression isn't to become dependent on others, its to be happy with yourself and know who you really are. I can't prove that you don't have actual clinical depression but being sad because you can't pick up chicks is kind of stupid.

[fawkes..]

Do it over Facebook and texts. Anybody can do that.

I know people who do this and then can't speak to the same girl face to face without it being awkward

[Katadeus]

I can attest that social skills are not at all natural for everyone. Plus I've never had a girlfriend and never really been interested so oh well

[Nonnel]

I know people who do this and then can't speak to the same girl face to face without it being awkward

Heh, yeah. Who does that?

[Jeep]

"If I don't talk to girls then my depression will get worse"
The key to overcoming depression isn't to become dependent on others, its to be happy with yourself and know who you really are. I can't prove that you don't have actual clinical depression but being sad because you can't pick up chicks is kind of stupid.

I'll vouch for Bubba here. I'm clinically depressed (considered severe actually). Last year, I was dependent on everyone. My best friend who I adored had left me after a fight she started, which tore me up (fight was on valentines day - still messed up from that today somewhat. I'm actually afraid for valentines day this year, because I know what happened on that day last year) That's what I got for being dependent. What it taught me is to not worry about others. And now, my depression has vanished. Be happy with independence, and never depend on someone. Take this as the best piece of advice you will ever hear.

[ultimamax]

Treat them like humans. Talk to them like they're anyone else. If you're too scared to do it, then do it anyway. That's the only way. :I

[BubbaGum]

I'll vouch for Bubba here. I'm clinically depressed (considered severe actually). Last year, I was dependent on everyone. My best friend who I adored had left me after a fight she started, which tore me up (fight was on valentines day - still messed up from that today somewhat. I'm actually afraid for valentines day this year, because I know what happened on that day last year) That's what I got for being dependent. What it taught me is to not worry about others. And now, my depression has vanished. Be happy with independence, and never depend on someone. Take this as the best piece of advice you will ever hear.

I stopped caring so much about making everyone happy and stopped being dependent on people and I got so much better, its awesome

[Nickelob Ultra]

I'm actually afraid for valentines day this year

Don't be.


Not every guy is capable of just straight up finding a girl and shooting a one-liner to get conversation going.  It's not something everyone else has, don't worry.

[Bisjac]

when i was in highschool, no one gave a forget about valentines day.
when did you people become so superstitious? like creating these non-issues in your heads lol.

so what if you are single through the "holiday"

[Messes]

You either have it or you don't.