The difference between "not a whore" and demiloveuality is that someone who's not a whore still might want to bang someone before getting close to them, and as for a demiloveual it'd be impossible to want to bang them until you get to know them.
To be fair wanting to bang someone you don't really know yet is still under the category of 'whore' even if one instance isn't enough to really label a person, but the same thing applies to a demiloveual or whatever you want to call it. Basically my point is, there's no reason for the term to exist.
. And please read the thing I posted about panloveuality.
What? You didn't really explain how it's differnet?
So it's being "gender blind"? Good for them, that's biloveuality, not placing an important on gender when considering loveual partners.