I'm still kind of confused by the fact that atkitton is dating Bisjac the "king" of insensitivity, he thinks its cool to be insensitive and often goes out of his way to try to be as offensive as possible in Self Delete or dead relative threads all the time, yet she finds other people that do the same thing highly offensive? You can forget a guy that does it but you can't tolerate a complete stranger doing it? Just sounds kind of odd to me.