Hm.
Well now, allow me to provide a little insight of my own.
First, onto the subject of Bubba's post.
Kristin, though I do have much respect for you and consider you a good friend, I can't agree with your reasoning. Please do not take this personally. You have a few points, but I must say that Tonkka deserved every bit of feedback for what he said to Kitton.
He is an starfish, to put it bluntly; anyone who troughs up a stuffstorm like that and practically spits in the face of someone who is grieving deserves no respect from me or this community. He has reached a new low; somewhere around Westboro Baptist Church. That's pretty low on the social charts of inhumane friendry.
Sorry, but I just think you're going about this the wrong way, Bubba.
Honestly, I think you and Kitton would be good friends (or close to it) if some resolution were reached.
Though, that is unlikely due to the nature of this forum.
I still think you're a great friend though and a smart girl. c:
Kitton.
I am very sorry, about your friend, about Tonkka, everything. I know you're grieving, but please, don't take it out on Bubba. Yes, you are correct, Bubba has some flawed logic in her post, but it is still unnecessary to take down a bystander with excess flak. I understand if you think me a "whiteknight." However, I do not believe in whiteknighting. I respect you both and enjoy your company on the forums. I see both of you as equally intelligent minds, which we seem to lack in this community.
What you can take your anger out on is Tonkka, or do not take your anger out on anybody.
And, as far as the "you shouldn't have posted it" stuff goes, that's total BS. I'm glad you posted that thread as it is always a good thing to release your pent up feelings to those who respect you. And who the forget is saying your post was "dramatic?" It's supposed to be dramatic, a close friend just died. You worded your post perfectly and those who say otherwise need to choke on a richard. I guess those people would be totally chill if their best friends just up and loving died.
Dipstuffs.
Anyway,
I'm sorry for your loss and wish the best for you and your friend's family.
Tonkka.
You're a piece of stuff. I honestly hope you're banned for this. Those actions you expressed were completely unwanted and cross the line into a very high level of douche. You are part of the scum bottom feeders of this community.
You had nothing to warrant you into saying those things and mocking that person's death.
Those who mock the loss of a valued life are unfit to live their own.
Go dive in a shark tank, starfish.
A final thing for Kitton and Bubba.
I really think you two can get along (Stocking and bubba? Never). You're both great people imo.
I actually enjoy Kitton's company in this forum, same with Bubba. Unlike a majority of this community, you two are actually smart.
I really don't see why you two must be at each others' throats. At least Bubba is trying to be friendly.
As for Stocking, I don't really care for her.
