Tonkka you can come be an insensitive handicap here

[Tonkka²]

Do you like trucks Tonkka? Like big old construction trucks?

Does not equal



I should become a teacher.

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[BubbaGum]

I don't really think Tonkka did anything wrong.
First of all it's clear that if you dont want negative responses, don't go on an internet forum where everyone basically is the definition of negative. It was inevitable that someone does not share the same opinion on how most people should react to the death of someone who was cared for.
Second of all he didnt directly disrespect Kitton, and he made some valid points. Of course I know Kitton is upset and hurt by this event, but some people do not see death the same way other people see it. People deal with it differently. It was a little rude to continually call him an starfish after he made it clear he was not trying to "flame" anyone, he was just giving his opinion. That's perfectly okay. Everyone should feel free to share their opinion without being critisized, and if you disagree then that would make you slighty hypocritical  because here and in that thread you shared your opinion and he critisized you back.
Anyway the point is that I don't think he meant much harm and it did seem slightly dramatic the way Kitton worded it. I'm sorry for your loss Kitton, hopefully he is in a very happy place now.

[ATKitton.]

I don't really think Tonkka did anything wrong.
First of all it's clear that if you dont want negative responses, don't go on an internet forum where everyone basically is the definition of negative. It was inevitable that someone does not share the same opinion on how most people should react to the death of someone who was cared for.
Second of all he didnt directly disrespect Kitton, and he made some valid points. Of course I know Kitton is upset and hurt by this event, but some people do not see death the same way other people see it. People deal with it differently. It was a little rude to continually call him an starfish after he made it clear he was not trying to "flame" anyone, he was just giving his opinion. That's perfectly okay. Everyone should feel free to share their opinion without being critisized, and if you disagree then that would make you slighty hypocritical  because here and in that thread you shared your opinion and he critisized you back.
Anyway the point is that I don't think he meant much harm and it did seem slightly dramatic the way Kitton worded it. I'm sorry for your loss Kitton, hopefully he is in a very happy place now.

Valid points huh? Ill make sure to give you the same respect if someone you know dies bubba.
I figured tonkka was one of your white knights.

[BubbaGum]

Valid points huh? Ill make sure to give you the same respect if someone you know dies bubba.
I figured tonkka was one of your white knights.

The things you said were cruel and unnecessary. It didn't really make sense for you to say the same things back to him, only worse. That isn't really how you should solve the problem. I don't agree with the points he made about wanting proof and not believing you, but it did seem a bit dramatic. As we all know, you can't ever know someone's intentions for doing something, so it wasn't absolutely wrong of him to assume you wanted sympathy. I'm not saying it wasnt disrespectful but he should be able to add his thoughts to the thread as well.

[ATKitton.]

The things you said were cruel and unnecessary. It didn't really make sense for you to say the same things back to him, only worse. That isn't really how you should solve the problem. I don't agree with the points he made about wanting proof and not believing you, but it did seem a bit dramatic. As we all know, you can't ever know someone's intentions for doing something, so it wasn't absolutely wrong of him to assume you wanted sympathy. I'm not saying it wasnt disrespectful but he should be able to add his thoughts to the thread as well.

Then tell me how the hell would you feel if you lost someone and went to a community where a lot of people have respect for you and theres that one person calling bullstuff? What if you turned to the people you have known for a while and they turned they back on you? One person on here bubba... says they dont like you and you throw a stuff fit and try to get in their good graces.
For once. Stop commenting on my stuff. I said what i said because im loving raged. I am going through so many god damn emotions and i turned to the place where i knew people would be there to comfort me. That is what friends and a community does. You think my post is dramatic? Try seeing someone and having a good time talking with them and the next time you hear they killed themselves. How would you handle that? Probably better than i would because lately you have no emotions and you have no heart. And i feel sorry for you because of that.

[BubbaGum]

Then tell me how the hell would you feel if you lost someone and went to a community where a lot of people have respect for you and theres that one person calling bullstuff? What if you turned to the people you have known for a while and they turned they back on you? One person on here bubba... says they dont like you and you throw a stuff fit and try to get in their good graces.
For once. Stop commenting on my stuff. I said what i said because im loving raged. I am going through so many god damn emotions and i turned to the place where i knew people would be there to comfort me. That is what friends and a community does. You think my post is dramatic? Try seeing someone and having a good time talking with them and the next time you hear they killed themselves. How would you handle that? Probably better than i would because lately you have no emotions and you have no heart. And i feel sorry for you because of that.

I'm not trying to be mean to you I'm just trying to say that you can't trust a forum full of tons of different people to all give the same response to a situation. I realize you may be angry but really.. how does it make you better than him to say the same thing back to him? Did he realy deserve everything you said? It was really cruel just to attack him like that, even if he attacked you first. He didn't intentionally attack you if at all, and you purposely said all these mean things to him. You dont know whats going on in his life either. Doesn't that make it hypocritical to do the same thing he did to you back? Thats all im trying to say

[ATKitton.]

I'm not trying to be mean to you I'm just trying to say that you can't trust a forum full of tons of different people to all give the same response to a situation. I realize you may be angry but really.. how does it make you better than him to say the same thing back to him? Did he realy deserve everything you said? It was really cruel just to attack him like that, even if he attacked you first. He didn't intentionally attack you if at all, and you purposely said all these mean things to him. You dont know whats going on in his life either. Doesn't that make it hypocritical to do the same thing he did to you back? Thats all im trying to say

You want hypocritical?

Anyway the point is that I don't think he meant much harm and it did seem slightly dramatic the way Kitton worded it. I'm sorry for your loss Kitton, hopefully he is in a very happy place now.

Calling me dramatic then telling me your sorry.
That is hypocritical.

[Bisjac]

bubba has an rss feed to kitton's posts. and just follows her to any possible topic.

someone put a bell on her

[¥ola]

I don't really think Tonkka did anything wrong.
First of all it's clear that if you dont want negative responses, don't go on an internet forum where everyone basically is the definition of negative. It was inevitable that someone does not share the same opinion on how most people should react to the death of someone who was cared for.
Second of all he didnt directly disrespect Kitton, and he made some valid points. Of course I know Kitton is upset and hurt by this event, but some people do not see death the same way other people see it. People deal with it differently. It was a little rude to continually call him an starfish after he made it clear he was not trying to "flame" anyone, he was just giving his opinion. That's perfectly okay. Everyone should feel free to share their opinion without being critisized, and if you disagree then that would make you slighty hypocritical  because here and in that thread you shared your opinion and he critisized you back.
Anyway the point is that I don't think he meant much harm and it did seem slightly dramatic the way Kitton worded it. I'm sorry for your loss Kitton, hopefully he is in a very happy place now.

This logic is so twisted lol.

"If other people have opinions they can express theirs but I can't do the same" is basically what you're saying.
If someone is told that what they have to say isn't what the person wants to hear, they should nicely leave the thread, if not, it's also perfectly okay to make a bigger deal out of it.

[Bester Bageler]

Ima go on ATKitton's side since she is older and that means she has larger tits.

[Tonkka²]

Ima go on ATKitton's side since she is older and that means she has larger tits.

This is the best loving thing i've heard all day.

[Cybersix]

Tonkka's points were just as valid as anyone else's in that thread. Also Tavros is right, if you don't want people being starfishs, don't post it.

[¥ola]

Tonkka's points were just as valid as anyone else's in that thread. Also Tavros is right, if you don't want people being starfishs, don't post it.

Why do people think this logic is okay?

If someone is to expect people to be an starfish and express their opinions on something, then why is that person not allowed to make a drama expressing theirs?

This logic is so loving handicapped lol

[ATKitton.]

mmm bring on bubba's army of white knights.... because those are the only guys saying i shouldnt have posted.

[Cybersix]

then why is that person not allowed to make a drama expressing theirs?

I never said it wasn't allowed. I was merely saying that you shouldn't post personal things, such as a friend's Self Delete, on the Blockland Forums because people are inevitably going to be starfishs.