step one: change your name to something with a ring to it. Try BANANAPHONEMOCHALATEMIXMASTER 29.
step two: join a server.
step three: say "wazup" or "hai"
step four: patiently wait for it to load.
step five: ask whats going on(I.E. server rules or theme)
step six: go along accordingly, If they say its spam, use bigger bricks.
step seven: profit.
The seven extra thingys:
1) dont use the word noob ever.
2) dont randomly shoot guns.
3) dont randomly spawn items.
4) dont build in "null space"(an area where people spam weapon spawns and pointless junk)
5) when asking someone something, say _name_, _question_?
not HEY DUDE HEY DUDE HEY DUDE over and over untill you get their antention
6) when remarking on a build, be as professional as possible and always start with the pros.(you'll get better reception)
7) to save bricks when building, use 4by1by5s.
16by16 plate, place 1by1by5s in the corners to make mini Ls(a 2by2by5 with a piece removed) then use the 4by1by5s to fill in the 12 stud gaps. This is a commonly used system, although its benefits result in some lack of detail. If you use smaller bricks, be it only to preserver detail and not to give it a "castle brick wall look".
If you start a newspaper again get a real website for it.